i have passed all the healing stages after i had sex with this great guy and after he started acting weird like i was a one nite.. i know he doesnt like me because he never calls, but still i just want to sleep with him.thing is he is very distant and kind of scared because i gave him the idea i wanted a realtionship and he is not ready .He never calls,promises he will come around and never does,never apologizes for not coming,im's me like nothing happened when i talk to him he sounds ver normal and the thing is i just want his body and i dont know how to make him the least interested in me.i have stopped calling him cause i have some dignity left but how do i make him care just a little or is it a no win situation.?HELP!!!
2007-02-18 13:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by patme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, I'd tell him just exactly what you just posted. That you dont want a relationship, just meaningless sex. I dont like the idea of him getting used just for sex, but I'm not with the guy so its none of my beeswax.
2007-02-18 14:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is your problem. You are contradicting yourself. First you say you just want his body then you ask how can you make him care a little? You are confused and mistake his sex for something else. Leave it alone its for too complicated and obviously you are not handling it well. Find someone else, and if it is just for sex it shouldn't matter who you are doing..... but make sure you use protection..........wouldn't you rather find someone who loves you back and the sex is far superior anyway.
2007-02-18 22:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by kelstar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not wanting a relationship right now and all you want is the sex and his body. Dont beat around the bush, just be straight and tell him the god honest truth... Good Luck sweetie!!
2007-02-18 22:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by jaide1108 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on it don't even worth it just for the fun.... so move on..You can find a guy just for the fun and one that at least will call you and say nice things to you...Have some pride....
2007-02-18 22:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK it sounds like you just want him because he's a great f*ck right?
so TELL him.
tell him you don't want anything other than a once in a while romp in bed and see if that gets his attention.
2007-02-18 22:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay- first off, this guys an ***. dont feel bad, we all come across them in our lifes. don't even try to get his attention, its so not worth it your better then him- thats obvious. you need to find someone new- someone who loves you. thats the best sex anyways.
2007-02-18 22:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you actually do want a relationship find someone else who wants one too this guy obviously doesnt
2007-02-18 22:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋