Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

i could not able to marry my girl friend becoz of my parents n we have breaken up our relationship after that she got married to another guy. because of the love and affection i had with her i called her after marriage she didnt care me and said she is happy with her husband. being responsible person and aware about the situation i never called her back. 6 months passed away. recently, one day suddenly she called me up and said she is missing me and loves me a lot. i could not understand why she didnt care me after marriage? And now why she suddenly says that she has feelings for me.? iam in double minded state.one mind says to have a relationship with her and second mind says that iam doing wrong thing by disturbing a family.

Before her marriage we had XXX couple of times and both of them had a very sweet moments with each other. Right now iam single dont have any girlfriends.

2007-02-15 20:17:50 · 19 answers · asked by Feel 1 in Singles & Dating

its very very faint but obviously a love bite, doesnt look like a bite though just the spotty mark,
need a good excuse before tonight pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeese

2007-02-15 20:17:32 · 30 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 20:15:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am13 and i have a crush on a guy. what should i do to attract him ?

2007-02-15 20:15:32 · 11 answers · asked by lizze 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my husband for thirteen years. He rarely
kisses me outside the bedroom and inside the bedroom it is very
little, like a few small pecks or so. Whenever he comes up to me
he grabs my breasts or butt. I tell him I don't like being groped and his reply is: "Yes you do, you know you do." with a grin on his face. Then he asks if I want to play with his wieener or ride the
big white horse. Ugh. After all this groping and articulate
language, we get in the bedroom and he completely ignores me.
HUH? When I tell him I want to be kissed more outside and
inside the bedroom he gets angry and asks: "Why is it all about
what YOU want?" HUH?
I try to kiss him all the time and hug him and tell him that I love
him. But he would rather I grabbed HIS crotch instead. He never
tells me he loves me right out of the blue. I have to ask him to
and then he says it like I am making him do it.
I am confused. I also feel cheap. Should I be feeling this way?

2007-02-15 20:14:27 · 29 answers · asked by white_willow_wisp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this man, and I like him a lot, and he is engaged and is going
to get married, but I made him sleep with me, and I have the other
man, and I got from the other man trichominiasis and vulvit and
gonorrhea, and now the engaged man has it, too. And I want to give him pills, no need to go to doctors, I am a doctor myself, if he marries me instead of her. And then no one will know. Will he marry me?
He is very powerful and would not want people to know.

2007-02-15 20:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by benir 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently, my brother and sister-in-law hosted a 70th birthday party for our mother. My husband and children and I traveled from Ghana, Africa to NJ to be a part of it. Truth be told, if it hadn't been for the party, we'd not have gone as the expense to us was fairly significant. Nonetheless, it was wonderful to see my Mom and brothers and sister who all live in the States.

I'd like to personally thank my sister-in-law and brother for what they did by sending a gift. Any ideas? She just recently lost over 100 lbs, so the idea of a food gift basket is out.

Thanks.

Barb

2007-02-15 20:12:42 · 3 answers · asked by Barbzzz37 4 in Family

one of mine friend who had once married and she want to find a person whose age same with her. Because all the guys who interested in her, their age are much young than her. Is there can trust matchmaker? she want to try to find someone really suit her age(about 37) and the guys' age about 20 something. However, she think she may join the matchmaker to know someone who suit her. Question is the matchmaker is can trust and does she need to pay any fee? and which one is better?

2007-02-15 20:11:31 · 3 answers · asked by 22CoCO 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy- we're like really close friends. He's always giving me hugs and stuff (though he does that with most of his -girl- friends) and we're always flirting with eachother. We say we love eachother but he says he only means it in a friendly way.

Thing is, yesterday I told one of my close friends i like him and she immediatly said 'I KNEW IT! You two flirt so much at school it's unbelievable!'. I discovered that not only do most of my friends think I like him, they think he likes me too.

My friend says she was in a similar situation with him when she liked him a while ago, and he dumped his girlfriend for her. But she didn't date him in the end because she didn't want to ruin their friendship.

I just don't know what to do any more :/ all my friends say I should tell him, but I'm scared of getting my heart broken & ruining a great friendship :(

Please help.

2007-02-15 20:11:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i've seen many girls who are way too vain. is that a turn off?

2007-02-15 20:10:50 · 13 answers · asked by jj 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 20:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by Lovesherman 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out on valentines day my wife is expecting our first child .....I am so damn happy that even though we are not telling anyone yet as its only 3 weeks in I am walking around with a perma-smile on my face, and the missus reckons someone is going to suss me out !

Can anyone think of a cure? Does anyone think I even need one?

Wohhhhhhoooooo....Im gonna be a Dad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-15 20:09:10 · 13 answers · asked by theuntutoredyouth 1 in Family

and NOT be interested?


This guy I know does all of these things, and he'll even do double takes at me but he won't ask me out.

I don't know if I'm following his signs correctly.

2007-02-15 20:09:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a 1 night stand or more

i have with a guy from a boy band it was a few years ago and only lasted a couple of weeks

2007-02-15 20:08:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and I were having this discussion. The guy involved makes 11.55 an hour and works 40 hours a week (which is 462 a week before taxes), he sometimes works overtime. He lives with his parents and has no bills other than his car insurance ($100 a month) and his cell phone bill (roughly $50 a month). So he's making 1848 a month before taxes.

I don't know if her situation matters, but if so here it is.

The girl is still in school and has student loan money and she works part time (500 a month). She has about 1500 in bills (775 rent, 400 car note, 125 car insurance, 110 phone, 50 cable, 100 electricity).

Should he be asked to pay a percentage of his check or give a certain amount each month? If she puts him on child support, how much would he have to pay?

2007-02-15 20:08:06 · 4 answers · asked by So_many_questions 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tonight will be a social (12th grade), and i plan on giving her a note/letter to express my feelings. I know i should do it up front, but i turn into a mumbling mound of gello when we're together alone or something like when she came up to thank me for a flower i gave her on V-day.

Would it be a turn off, or would it be sweet to you girls and work? Ive never done told my feelings before, so if talking fails, this is my last resort. She knows me, and vice versa. Tips would be great if you say yes ! Much appreciated.

2007-02-15 20:05:10 · 6 answers · asked by Dabidu 4 in Singles & Dating

if you found your boyfriend had a myspace page and didnt tell you, and he had girls on there that left him msgs AND when you created a page he got mad.

the thing is my boyfriend has lied to me b4 and me being stupid stayed with him, hes never cheated, or atleast ive never caught him, but he lies about little things and it makes me wonder if he lies about that then what else is he lying about, and he blew up when i asked him about his myspace plus on his page it said he was single, we've been together for 2 years. also on the page he talks about sara who has been his best friend for 2 years? whos that?!? he told me his cousin!

i am so upset right now! do i have a right to be angry? i told him i was done!

2007-02-15 20:04:06 · 15 answers · asked by ishybug03 4 in Singles & Dating

grow up with both a mom and dad, living a otherwise "normal" life with both parents then around age 18 they split and you find out things were never "ok" and learn of all the lies and cheating that you never saw before or grow up with divorced parents and all that comes with that.. the back and forth the in laws the everything we all know that comes of that.

2007-02-15 20:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a b/f who I love very much. He is everything I've ever wanted except for one thing, we are not intellectually compatible.

He is very simple and simple minded. I am a deep thinker and a very analytical person. I get frustrated at times and sometimes feel I'm alone b/c of this.

However, he is faithful, takes great care of me, we are very sexually compatible, share the same values, both very spiritual, have a great time hanging out together, like a lot of the same things, etc. He is a great emotional support for me.

I have dated men who are intellectual but they did not have all of the great characteristics my b/f has, and were not near as sensitive to my needs.

Please help!

2007-02-15 20:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Ummm.....yeah 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of a long time told me one day, "dont hide your tears because its cute when your crying" why do they think that ?

2007-02-15 20:00:24 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs.Durossndamaken 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy like i really think im in love sounds stupid but VERY true but he dont like me he liked this girl my best friend who is a total slut and im just a nice girl how can I make him like me? Thanks

2007-02-15 20:00:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 19:59:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

umm I really like this guy but i met him on myspace :( thanks

2007-02-15 19:58:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've noticed that nice looking girls nowadays tend to go for the ugly guys who wear earrings, know how to party, and dress with their sports jerseys. Why is that? I have never been able to understand that. I would think that a woman would choose the man that could offer her the most right? I mean that makes more logical sense. Someone whose financially secure, good looking, or both. I've been in situations where I'm trying to get with a girl and she seems to like me but then she tells me she has a boyfriend. When I see the boyfriend, he's not exactly a lady's man. I mean I don't consider myself a hunk or lady's man but I'm average and in many cases I'm better looking and can offer more to those girls financially as well. I also know how to party but am not a crazy party guy who gets wasted. Can someone please explain this to me?

2007-02-15 19:58:04 · 9 answers · asked by jorarmando 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 19:57:54 · 4 answers · asked by Noodles 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night I went out with a group of mates. 1 of the guys I hadn't met before & I got on really well. About 1/2 throught the night he asked me if I was single, saying he was really interested - but wouldn't ask me out if I was already taken. I said I wasn't & we decided to go to a different pub alone later. I really thought it was going well. However, when he went to the bar I was talking to one of his friends to see if he was a nice guy, not messing me around, etc... she said he's a great guy, then when jokingly I mentioned something about him being single she reply with 'oh he's not - he & his girlfriend are very serious & he's very much taken'. When he asked for my number (after trying a few things that definately shouldn't) I confronted him. All he said was he didn't care about her & really liked me. Obviously I didn't take things further. Why did his friends stand & watch him doing that to his gf? Why did it matter so much if In was single? & Why did he have to be so nice?

2007-02-15 19:57:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she mus be a moslem ,God fearing and she can travel to Africa.

2007-02-15 19:56:52 · 2 answers · asked by mozzes2006 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 19:56:03 · 5 answers · asked by EVA J 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 19:53:45 · 9 answers · asked by yogesh 1 in Friends

What does it mean if a man blushes when someone he has loved in the past is mentioned. If my ex blushed when my friend mentioned my name does that mean he probably still has feelings for me? Why else would he have blushed?

2007-02-15 19:53:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating