Last night I went out with a group of mates. 1 of the guys I hadn't met before & I got on really well. About 1/2 throught the night he asked me if I was single, saying he was really interested - but wouldn't ask me out if I was already taken. I said I wasn't & we decided to go to a different pub alone later. I really thought it was going well. However, when he went to the bar I was talking to one of his friends to see if he was a nice guy, not messing me around, etc... she said he's a great guy, then when jokingly I mentioned something about him being single she reply with 'oh he's not - he & his girlfriend are very serious & he's very much taken'. When he asked for my number (after trying a few things that definately shouldn't) I confronted him. All he said was he didn't care about her & really liked me. Obviously I didn't take things further. Why did his friends stand & watch him doing that to his gf? Why did it matter so much if In was single? & Why did he have to be so nice?
2007-02-15 19:57:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was actually a really nice guy up until the point where he appeared to be a jerk mainly because of what he was doing to his girlfriend. He was funny, interesting, intelligent... he was the perfect gentleman until I found out about his girlfriend.
2007-02-15 20:28:39 · update #1
Ok this is going to sound unbelievably naive but here goes anyway..... why would someone do this to a) his girlfriend and b) the stranger who actually quite fancied him?
Is it just a cruel game? Something to do that night?
Sorry - I know this is a little obsessive, but for some reasons I feel the need to understand (even though I am old enough and wise enough to know better!)
2007-02-16 01:26:36 · update #2
Put the flirt divert number in your phone and when jerks like this one ask for your number give them that number instead of your own. You can then have the pleasure of listening to their message live on Radio 1.
Good luck
2007-02-15 20:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Bristol_Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its in the guy handbook, rule decision 6. continually be a jerk. heavily, no longer all adult men are jerks. yet i am going to agree that maximum are jerks. i don't think of i'm, a minimum of lots of the time. I type of discover it troublesome to trust that all the adult men you come back into contact with deal with you the way you describe. you possibly basically be conscious them more beneficial because they are more beneficial "on your face" than the guy or adult men that are not jerks. ignore with regard to the jerks and initiate taking understand the adult men that are not doing the cat calls and whistles, and dissimilar comments. it is the position you'll discover the guy that respects you for who're and not in any respect what you seem as if.
2016-12-04 06:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he is using her until something better comes a long.
Sometimes we are jerks on purpose, other times we have no idea we are being jerks, it's just the way we are...
2007-02-15 20:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How was he nice?? I feel bad for the girlfriend and hope word gets back to her so that she can find someone more worthwhile!
2007-02-15 20:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one: All men are jerks.
Some more, some less, but they are all jerks.
2007-02-15 20:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋