if you found your boyfriend had a myspace page and didnt tell you, and he had girls on there that left him msgs AND when you created a page he got mad.
the thing is my boyfriend has lied to me b4 and me being stupid stayed with him, hes never cheated, or atleast ive never caught him, but he lies about little things and it makes me wonder if he lies about that then what else is he lying about, and he blew up when i asked him about his myspace plus on his page it said he was single, we've been together for 2 years. also on the page he talks about sara who has been his best friend for 2 years? whos that?!? he told me his cousin!
i am so upset right now! do i have a right to be angry? i told him i was done!
2007-02-15 20:04:06 · 15 answers · asked by ishybug03 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have every right in the world to be angry! i would probably be more angry than you! my boyfriend did something similar... he would check his myspace at home (i knew about it) but when he signed in to check his msgs he would make me look away or leave or he would just close it and check it when i was gone. and we have been together for 5 years and he had it as single... then i finally got a look at it and blew up on him. I told him if he is cheating (and as far as i know he hasn't) or is even "talking" to anyone on there i would leave and take our son with me (he's 16 mo) and after that, he changed it to "engaged" (we are not married) and he put pics of me in there and of our son, and starting putting blogs of what cute things our son did that week, etc. I won't go into the entire details, but let him know that his myspace is still representing him and not seeing any mention of you and that he is a "free" man for the ladies is saying he doesn't value you at all and that maybe he'd rather be with this "sara" girl he's known for 2 years? that would be the most disturbing.. maybe it's time to move on if he doesn't care about you like you care for him. Let him know if he doesn't value you you're gone, and his constant lying (even about small things) shows a lack of disrespect, love, and any interest in you. you deserve more girl if he doesn't shape up!!!
2007-02-15 20:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by lynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, you should be very worry. Yes, You have the right to be angry since you are his g/f and he created a file and said he is single? And why need to create a page when he already got you? And you've together for 2 yrs and don't even know all of his relative? I don't think whoever Sara is his cousin. Unless you talk to her? Maybe you are his g/f but not his best friend yet? Because I can talk to my husband about everything. He my husband and he is also my best friend. His friends are also my friends and my friends are also his. Nothing to hide.
2007-02-16 04:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lilian 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you have the right to be angry. Although it's myspace and that's probably no big deal, he shouldn't be lying. If you guys have been together for 2 yrs and he put single that sounds like he's looking. He probably only flirts and probably won't cheat, but I'm sure you deserve better than someone who lies!
2007-02-16 04:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Boy you really don’t trust him at all despite the fact that he’s apparently has never cheated on you. It sounds to me like you want to know (maybe even ‘control’?) every single aspect of his life, and you’re smothering him.
You're not married, so he is 'single' (involved maybe, but still single). What exactly are these girls saying on his page? Are they saying “thanks for sexing me up last night. You’re a god. I came 5 times!” I doubt it (since you didn’t say that), and even IF that were the case, maybe it was ‘kidding’. And why wouldn’t you believe that Sara is his cousin? OR maybe you don’t think that he should be allowed to be have female friends at all?
The problem, as I see it, is YOURS. You have some big trust issues. You might want to get some help with that.
2007-02-16 04:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well well so this sara does exist and its not his cousin my god girl i wld have done the same thing. Its ur dignity and self respect and if he loves u he will come back to u but is he worthy he obviously lies and he has set up paranoia channels with "sara" so hmmm im guessin ditch the liar and find a better MAN!
2007-02-16 04:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Men always like to play, thinking that they could play with fire and not get burned.
It's normal for a men to put up online profiles to test their attractiveness because they are such naturally insecure creatures. Also a profile makes them feel as if they are in control i.e. Playing God. Typical egoistical man.
Your bf is childish, immature, insecure. However, about 90% are similar. It's up to you how forgiving you want to be and how much you want to keep him.
2007-02-16 04:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"plus on his page it said he was single" Well since he is only your boyfriend he is right he IS single. He's not married. So let's break this down...you've been "together" for two years...how "together"? I'm going to assume having sex...because nowadays that's pretty much a given. So are you engaged? Have a ring? Has he asked you to marry him? Told you that he IS going to ask you to marry him someday? Looked at silverware patterns with you? He's not married, not engaged, has been "dating" someone for two years but isn't committed...yeah he IS single. And since it's HIS computer and HIS time, he has the right to do whatever he want's on HIS Mypace page.
2007-02-16 04:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Okay, so, he's lying to you and cheating on you at the very least emotionally. You know what's funny, I remember when men lived in this country.
2007-02-16 04:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt be at him. I would be mad at myself. He would have given me many clues in the past that ignored.
The fact that he said he's single should be a clue that you have just waisted the last 2 years. Tell me..will you ever trust him again..nuff said..
2007-02-16 04:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he definitely has something to hide. People to lie and withhold information for no reason. He wants girls to think he is single, and that is totally not cool. Get rid of this tool.
And yes, you have a reason to be mad
2007-02-16 04:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by megs1bq 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋