i could not able to marry my girl friend becoz of my parents n we have breaken up our relationship after that she got married to another guy. because of the love and affection i had with her i called her after marriage she didnt care me and said she is happy with her husband. being responsible person and aware about the situation i never called her back. 6 months passed away. recently, one day suddenly she called me up and said she is missing me and loves me a lot. i could not understand why she didnt care me after marriage? And now why she suddenly says that she has feelings for me.? iam in double minded state.one mind says to have a relationship with her and second mind says that iam doing wrong thing by disturbing a family.
Before her marriage we had XXX couple of times and both of them had a very sweet moments with each other. Right now iam single dont have any girlfriends.
2007-02-15 20:17:50 · 19 answers · asked by Feel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a recipe for disaster. If she didn't want to be with you while she was single, why would she want you now? She is playing you, and her husband. At the very least, have some respect for her husband, or be even bolder and tell him what she is doing. He needs to know.
This woman is a loser and a user, you need to back out now before this escalates into some real trouble.
2007-02-15 20:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by C J 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a sad story. The road to happiness is sometimes rocky.
Maybe she married this other guy because she felt rejected by you. If your parents didn't like her...and you decided to reject her...What else could she do?
This does not mean that she had stopped loving you. Maybe you could meet her in a public place for you both to talk and to see if you still have the same feelings for her.
If she has married the wrong person and you still want her...No matter what your parents say...Go for it.
2007-02-19 10:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her attitude is not right; she most probably encounters problems with her marriage and she's looking a life-saver to get a grip. What is her husband finds out? She will say that it was you who called and asked her out, trust me!
When the problem with her husband will be over, she will throw you away, like a squeezed orange peel!
Keep away, my friend!
Keep away!
Search for another girl; you deserve something better!
On the other hand, try to stand up and don't let your parents decide about your life. Maybe this time they were right (your ex gril friend's attitude shows so) but what about next time?
Take care...
2007-02-15 20:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like things arent going well in her marriage and you may be an out for her. Parents shouldnt stop you marrying the one you love. Its your life and you need to make the right decisions that will make you happy. If this girl is the one for you and you truly love her, then you should pursue her and find out why she has called you and what has happened in her marriage to make her relise that you were the one. If she is not the one, then you should contact her and say I still want to be friends but nothing more. We have to have our separate lives. If you can see yourself growing old with her, sharing a house, holidays and children together and you feel you will get the same love back from her, then go for it!
2016-05-24 06:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give her another chance. Beside she is still married. How do you feel if you are married and someones trying to break your marriage. If she did truly loves you why did she tried harder to stay in relationship with you to prove to your parents that she loves you no matter what? And by got married to another guy 6 mons. ago? She gave up with you and now she gave up on her husband only 6 mons later? Is that prove to you anything? Pls find yourself someone else..You've been doing just fine by never called her back during her marriage..What happened to that?
2007-02-15 20:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do ur self a favour and move on wth ur life.. being involved wth a married person is nt worth it. sometimes love doesnt work out and the earlier u accept that the better. enjoy ur road to happiness only if u ignore her comeons. good luck
2007-02-15 20:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on with your life. What this girl is doing is not right, she needs to be faithful to her husband or she shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. What you need to do is find a new girlfriend who treats people respectfuly.
2007-02-19 13:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by caramel_latte 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't enter her life, she has a husband, there may be problems, let them solve, if you enter her life, u will be creating more problems, and maybe break her marriage, which is unforgivable.
U still do not have anything positive to offer her, u still have your family and they won't accept her.
2007-02-15 20:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again you donot enter into her life.it's not shows her true love.
in the first as per yr parents wish you discontinued.Then why are you in
double minded.You can settle yr life with another one.
if y continues it'll affect both of you
2007-02-18 23:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by raksha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know before receiving any advice u must have gone back to her
but let her cut off relation from her hubby only then u shiukd have gone back to her
2007-02-15 20:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋