Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

I left my husband 2 years ago because of his drinking. I didn't push to sell our home because our 2 children (although adults) still lived there, shortly after he made it difficult for them and they moved out. I moved into a flat and payed rent and had to buy everything I needed as I took nothing from the matrimonial home. We are now selling up and he thinks he should deduct the amount of mortgage he has paid since I left from the proceeds of the house sale. i argued that I have had to pay rent, his answer is that it was my choice, it's as if he thinks I should be punished for leaving him. I want a 50/50 split am I right?

2007-02-14 07:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by susan h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been together for roughly 7 years. we've weathered good and bad times together. Back in November she revealed that I have a problem with lying. I owned up to anything that I did wrong. One month later she dropped another bomb stating that the problem is disolving our marriage. I had not lied about any thing. Situations that were strange made it appear that I lied, but I had nothing to gain or avoid in doing so, and I did not lie. Thee boy crying wolf . I was telling the truth, and now she does not believe me. the same night she revealed that she loves me, but is not in love with me. we started going to a counselor, and are working on the situation, but she reveals questions asking me not to hate her if our marriage fails. I feel that she has already quit on me, and our marriage. then a few days later she tells me that she has days were she is in love withme, but it is overrun by suspision. She tells me that she can not sleep with out me in our bed.

2007-02-14 07:11:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I realy feel something for this girl

2007-02-14 07:10:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I started having sex with my boyfriend because i believe that we will end up getting married...is that ok??? I really do love him...and i know that he would not cheat on me or anything.

2007-02-14 07:10:47 · 37 answers · asked by Punkgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I want no to all about why you fall in love with your girlfirend or wife!!! PLEASE just the man who no that they are in love!!

2007-02-14 07:10:06 · 3 answers · asked by CRYSTAL 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok here goes, say i want to get married to someone who is working in the U.S. with a working visa, and i am a U.S. Citizen, how do i go about doing this, oh and the visa will expire in about 4 months?

2007-02-14 07:09:49 · 9 answers · asked by combat_killer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this man for the last 6 months. He lives in another state. I thought he would send me some flowers for this Valentine day, but all I recd was just a call with a Happy Valentine day wish.

He absolutely has more money than he can spend. I'm upset. Should I tell him how I feel or should I just let it goes?

2007-02-14 07:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay here's what's going on I find out from a friend that this guy wants to ask me to prom but won't ask me b/c he's afraid I'll so no, so she asks me if I would say yes or not, the thing is I haven't really talked to him this year and we only have one class together but he is a sweet guy so... I told her that I would go with him if we started talking more so it wouldn't be akward on prom night, so then she says great he'll be so excited. The next day he barely looks at me, has he changed his mind, is he going to ask, and what should I do (make other plans?)?

2007-02-14 07:09:08 · 2 answers · asked by m cheryl 3 in Singles & Dating

Not so much a specific question as just one to relate to however today I am feeling particularly miserable and you know what they say about misery loving company

2007-02-14 07:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Singles & Dating

What did you do? Did you find it was worth the effort to try to renew the friendship or did you just let them fade out of your life? A high school friend of mine who I go to college with has slighted me and my roommate (new best friend) and tries to get under everyones' skin. She's naturally argumentative and enjoys conflict, so I don't know what she considers normal friendship anymore. Should I ask her to meet for coffee and discuss things to make sure our friendship isn't suffering because of something that is going wrong in her life? Thanks in advance.

2007-02-14 07:08:10 · 8 answers · asked by Shammie64 1 in Friends

what do you call that is that mena we should go back out or leave things the way they are

2007-02-14 07:07:55 · 6 answers · asked by sarah t 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my wife since we were eighteen for 10 years and we have three children together. Recently, I had an affair which made us split up for 6 months. But when I came home from work, my wife was waiting for me and she said she missed me and she wanted to make another go of things. I love her to pieces and I know I don't deserve a second chance. But the next morning, she got up and she said she wasn't sure anymore.....

Why the sudden change of heart and what can I do to win her back?

2007-02-14 07:07:39 · 13 answers · asked by s.roberts212 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I plan on kissing my Boy friend butt i dont kno wut kind of kiss i should do now and later. Please tell me what kinds i should be doing that usually doesnt make them feel weird or uncomfortable.

thanks!!!!

2007-02-14 07:07:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, my bf has been acting kinda distracted here lately and last night I confronted him about it. He said I worry to much. And he admits he has been giving me the cold shoulder but it is okay cuz he still loves me. He says that I need to learn how to deal with it cuz he gets in these moods.
I want to know how to get him over it or even how I can accept that he is that way.

2007-02-14 07:07:05 · 5 answers · asked by Selena H 1 in Singles & Dating

likey my poem? i think its okay, i revised it alot the other night but i think it could be better.....
I also need help with a tittle...........

cheating boyfriend,
shattered heart,
what was perfect now lies on the floor in peices,
eyes now welling up with sad remorse,
it spilt over her eye lid and crashed on the floor,
the bottle on the table offered relief,
covered her sorrow,
sang her sweet all those whiskey lullbyes,
but the pain was still there,
pull the bullet and she lay still.

2007-02-14 07:06:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been best friends with this guy for almost 15 years... well I just stole his girlfriend away on Valentine's Day. LOL. The thing is this.. she wants me to move in with her and we can kick him out to the street where he belongs.. anyway, for a V-Day present to him, she's going to break up with him in front of me and then I am going to propose to her? Too mean, or no?

2007-02-14 07:06:24 · 29 answers · asked by dees d 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband more than anything in the world and we have a wonderful life and family. Several years ago I opened up to him and confessed that I am bisexual. He told me that he understood because his sister was bisexual also. I have always loved my sister-in-law and we've always been close even before I dated my husband. My husband said that he could see her and I being together on occassions and gave me permission to persue it if it ever came up between her and I, which happened. He loves me for who I am and I am totally committed to him. My question is how do I explain to my husband that when I'm with my sister-in-law the feelings are so intense? When I reach climax being with her it's earth shattering, much more intense than when I'm with my husband. I would never say anything to hurt his feelings because he is a wonderful man and I love him so much.

2007-02-14 07:06:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

WE GOT ENGAGED ON JAN 28 WEN SHOULD THE WEDDING BE..HE WANTS TO WAIT A YR TILL IM OUT OF MEDICAL SCHOOL BUT I DONT WANT OT WAIT THAT LONG,WHEN IS A GOOD TIME TO GET MARRIED

2007-02-14 07:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by Lucky Princess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm the nerd in my class and i think i'm dumb!?!

2007-02-14 07:05:11 · 22 answers · asked by melissy 1 in Friends

My boyfriend got me a card and a a trip for us too to go down to the bahamas for spring break and like chocolates. I got him a card and a new gutair. Do you think my gifts too like small? because i feel bad because i didnt know we were getting like big gifts you know? So do you think i should have got more? My boyfriend said he loved it and ya i dont know. :(

2007-02-14 07:05:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

They do feel nice. Good support. I told my wife I was going to leave her for me, after she stroke my legs.

2007-02-14 07:04:48 · 11 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

get married, but his choice is limited only to 2 young girls, one of whom is low hight, that is below average height, and she is rather simple, at the same time the second girl is high height,at least the level of the top of her head reaches the shoulder of that man, or even they are the same height, as well she is slim beautiful like angel. As for the type of figure low height girl's figure is not ideal, 50x50, at the same time high height girl's figure is like man's magazine cover girl's, I mean very attractive.That man should make his own choice between only these 2 girls. Both girls have the same social and intellectual background. Which one would he choose?

2007-02-14 07:04:36 · 8 answers · asked by Like 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and i think he likes me 2 but i can't ask him out because i'm too shy to ask him out. somebody plz give me advice on how to ask him out. GUYS ONLY PLZ.

2007-02-14 07:04:05 · 5 answers · asked by Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

can anyone suggest birthday gifts?
she is turning 21 on march 21st.
21 on 21st (once in a life:) ).
I just wanted make this special.
I can't fly to meet her personally.
how abt sending greeting cards everyday starting march 1st

2007-02-14 07:03:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I liked a guy i work with,but hes kinda slow all he does is staring @me(SHAUN) &he gets jealous when i chat up other guys,Now im starting to like his friend(OMAR)but whenever im all up in his space omar backs of,shaun doesnt know i like him,but is it wrong to fall for omar regardles that ive never had anything to do with shaun?

2007-02-14 07:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

We talk to eachother way more than he talks to his girlfriend, and he even said he likes me. I like him so much but how can I get him to see that I'm the one for him and not his girlfriend?

2007-02-14 07:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're in our late 20's.

He's coming home late tonight from working offshore for the past 3 weeks.

I may not get to see him until tomorrow being that we don't live together.



I'm going to make heart-shaped, sandwich, sugar cookies with pink-tinted cream cheese frosting centers.

I'm also going to make pepperoni pizza with heart-shaped pepperoni. I didn't know what to drink and just grabbed a 2 liter bottle of Coke (after I bought it, realized the label goes with my red/pink theme!)

I made him a movie basket with movie theater candy and packs of movie theater butter popcorn and a movie he said once that he wanted.

What would you think if a girl did this for you? I'm not expecting a gift.... or even want one. Well... I was kinda hoping he would go to church with me this weekend.

2007-02-14 07:03:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

God Bless and Be Safe :)

2007-02-14 07:03:01 · 1 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 07:02:18 · 7 answers · asked by Tigers Gal! 4 in Friends

i live in nyc my son is not born yet but i want to start the child suport process asap,i heard you can do it even while you are still pregnant,well im 6 months pregnant

2007-02-14 07:02:12 · 9 answers · asked by lovehurts 1 in Marriage & Divorce