what do you call that is that mena we should go back out or leave things the way they are
2007-02-14 07:07:55 · 6 answers · asked by sarah t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it means you need to break away completely without being friends until your over eachother so you can move on or you need to just quit being silly and get back together. you're wasting each others time. if you wanna be together, just do it - if you wanna see other people then i think it would be in the best interest of the people you may see and yourselves to leave well enough alone and go your separate ways.
2007-02-14 07:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there...
Ask yourself what you want from this psuedo relationship you have going on with the ex.
If you see a future w/ this person, you should consider giving it another chance. If you don't see a future w/ him/her, this is extremely unhealthy to continue on like that. With that said, we're only human. Sometimes it's just tough to cut it off completely especially if you've had a long history together.
Help yourself, if you can't, the good/bad news is.... God will help you. It might take some time, but one of you will eventually disengage once a more desirable alternative becomes available, e.g. another guy/girl. The real heartbreak will inevitably follow, but it's for the better..
2007-02-14 15:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by SHH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's obvious that you both have unresolved feelings for each and still very attatched to each other. you probrably need to discuss whether you want give the relationship another chance. but before you get back together make sure you thoroughly discuss what caused the breakup in the first place, say everthing that needs to be said about the first relationship and then close the 'book' on it. don't bring baggage from the first relationship to the new one.
2007-02-14 15:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by JudiM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break with him/her definitely,otherwise u will have pain later, or you still hold the mind that you both still have chance to be together. well, if u love him/her still, go to talk and make it back.
2007-02-14 15:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by zara_mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean..if you say you love eachtoher..obviously you love eachother..so ya..i owuld ask him out again...i mean what have you got to loose..he seems like herl ikes oyu too...so ya..if he doesnt want to go out i doub that will ruin your freindship or ne hting..
good luck..and just do what you think is right..and what you want to doo
*meg*
2007-02-14 15:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by weirdofoshur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEN GET BACK TOGETHER!!!
2007-02-14 15:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋