I liked a guy i work with,but hes kinda slow all he does is staring @me(SHAUN) &he gets jealous when i chat up other guys,Now im starting to like his friend(OMAR)but whenever im all up in his space omar backs of,shaun doesnt know i like him,but is it wrong to fall for omar regardles that ive never had anything to do with shaun?
2007-02-14 07:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well considering that shaun has never said anything and all he does is stare at u, u have no obligations to him. staring doesn't mean anything. if u like omar, so go out with him and fall for him. that's what happens to guys who are so slow to say when they like someone. they lose out. have fun dating omar!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-14 10:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright ,Shaun will have to get used to it and if he doesn't there's still nothing he can do except win over your heart again and then everything should still be alright(Omar always backs off so if you';re with Shaun he'll just back off)
2007-02-14 08:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Razvan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is a bit confusing but what i gathered is that you are falling for your bf's friend and you seem a bit guilty. to tell you the truth, you should feel guilty for trying to flirt with this other guy (omar) but, on the other hand, you shouldn't. why? you said your own boyfriend was boring and i can understand that. what i would do is tell my boyfriend that we need to things that are fun such as playing a sport (tennis) or go out more together! because what i also gather is that, you two don't seem to do
ANYTHING fun! if he doesn't want to do any of what was suggested above...tell him that you need some time to think about where you two are going in the relationship. however, i would not advice you to date his friend omar...because that's just bad. I'm sure it's because you feel bored why you "think" you have interest in this guy.
if you really have strong feelings for this guy...try to fight it as it seems as if he himself " backs of" whenever ur "all up in his space.
i don't want to sound harsh but it's just reality. besides there are plenty of fishes in the sea. for now, try and make ur boyfriend more "lively"
:) cutefergie
2007-02-14 07:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i say go with ur heart and see what happens Shaun will get used to u and Omar good luck chica.
2007-02-14 07:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that, if it were me I woukd rather be with someone who makes me happy rathre than someone I am with because I felt guilty about liking their friend.
2007-02-14 07:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You decide which one you like and go for it!
2007-02-14 07:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see which one you like more
2007-02-14 07:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋