We talk to eachother way more than he talks to his girlfriend, and he even said he likes me. I like him so much but how can I get him to see that I'm the one for him and not his girlfriend?
2007-02-14 07:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing to do ... is make him choose ... tell him that he cant have his cake and eat it too ... its either you or her, and from what your saying he spends more time with you so he shouldnt even be with his girlfriend in the first place! Dont let it go on any longer, because the longer it goes on the harder it is gunna be to say somehting to him, and the more hurt your gunna get!
2007-02-14 07:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jody W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up someone's relationship to be with him is selfish and wrong....you wouldnt want someone doing it to you. First off if this guy really likes you he would end his relationship with that other person wait a bit for things to cool down then start dating again. The last thing he needs is his ex accusing him of leaving her for someone else. If you guys start seeing each other do it on the DL(down low) and don't tell a lot of people about your relationship so it doesnt get relayed back to the individual who this guy broke up with if you have mutual friends. But let this guy leave on his own don't do anything to cause a break up because you're being selfish if you do. A person who truly wants to be with you will not be taken and if they are would end the relationship appropriately and with respect.
2007-02-14 15:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL, lots of things can be happening he is getting some by his girl and probably is not sure you will give it up to him. So he doesent whant to take the risk until his sure you are willing to do it with him
OR hese having troubles with his girl and he whant a backup ( you) just in case they break up.
OR he is making his girl jealouse on purpose.
OR he just simply likes you but is thinking if your the one for Him.
IF i dont like the girlfreind i would hint around that you like him to. And see what happens. Tell the gir that you to are really into each other so she will probably break up with him to spare herself some himuliation. Dont fight over him though therese nothing worse than that. IF his a ss dousent macke up his mind the day you tell him to macke a choice then he obviously is playing with both of you! Thats when you leave his a ss.
And if his flirting with you now he probably isnt the most loyal person.
2007-02-14 15:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so when i first met my girlfriend i had a girlfriend already. me and my current talked alot and we really got along. we hung out all the time and one night we talked and i told her how i felt....that i was in love with her.... and i ended up breaking up with my X for her. its the best relationship ever!
2007-02-14 15:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by OMG WHERE ARE THE COWS!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably afraid to break up with his girlfriend, because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. tell his girlfriend what's up, and advise her to break up with him, or shove off or something. he might feel a little abandoned at first but it's for the better. also remember, that a guy that's cheating on his girlfriend for you now, might cheat on you when you're his girlfriend.
2007-02-14 15:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already has a girlfriend then you should leave him alone. Geez... You're the reason why all this drama continues.
2007-02-14 15:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he likes you, it's very easy. Tell him you wanna talk, you will see his reaction. If he really likes you, he will invite you somewhere.
2007-02-14 15:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by BRIANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't he leave his girlfriend if he likes you?if he likes both it's better to leave him alone.He is a bustard.
2007-02-14 15:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by ecates3wear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in touch with him and if he is already free.. then think how u would get him..
2007-02-14 15:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋