I started having sex with my boyfriend because i believe that we will end up getting married...is that ok??? I really do love him...and i know that he would not cheat on me or anything.
2007-02-14 07:10:47 · 37 answers · asked by Punkgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends if you are ok with it. are you comfortablle with what you are doing? do what feels right
2007-02-14 07:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your choice, you can do what you want with your body. Society would see this as fine and okay. Personally, I don't want to have sex before I get married. I have a boyfriend right now, we've been together for almost four months. I can see myself marrying him though it's very early in the relationship and I know a proposal won't come till much later. I love him with all my heart, but I told him early in the relationship that I will not sleep with him or anyone else until I'm married. It's one of the standards that I take very seriously, but it's also my choice. I could change my mind in a moment if I wanted to. As it is your choice to have sex with your boyfriend. I understand your "dilemma" if that's the correct word...
2007-02-14 07:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Abbey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie if you were so sure about your boyfriend, you wouldn't have written about your private life here. I am a man and not sure if I would have slept with him (had I been you) for the reason you have given.... Sleep with someone because you want to do so and not because you believe it may become a long term relationship... What are you to do now that he's been in your bed and he tells you - "it's been real - really great but hey, time to move on"?
2007-02-14 07:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Grandfather Oak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if thats what you want. As long as you're not doing it just because he is pressuring you.
Don't be so sure about getting married and him not cheating though ..... sorry, just being honest. People change and there may come a day when you don't want to be with him anymore.
2007-02-14 07:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and marriage are two different things. In today's world they are no long related. If you want to have sex, go ahead. Marriage should really be discussed and only if the two people in question are like minded, considered.
2007-02-14 07:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really need the approval of perfect strangers to have sex with your boyfriend? You should have waited to have sex until after you are married.
2007-02-14 07:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Don 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh sweetie, I thought the same thing when I had sex for the first time. I hope your relationship works out better than mine did. Yes it's alright now that you have done it, If you would have asked before, I would have said don't do it!!! Good Luck.
2007-02-14 07:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea it is ok. Waiting to have sex until marriage is a dying act. Hardly anybody does that anymore. As long as you aren't forced into it I say go ahead.
2007-02-14 07:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by sexypanty07 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is ok but you should be using protection no matter how much you love him or how much you believe you two will marry.
2007-02-14 07:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by law woman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love each other and are doing it for the right reasons. And if you're old enough to be mature and responsible enough to discuss and use protection and you should discuss what you'll do if the protection "falls through" so to speak.
2007-02-14 07:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um... marriage ? People don't consider if they are married or going to be anymore as to whether or not they will engage in sex. It depends on your age as well.
2007-02-14 07:14:55 · answer #11 · answered by elflocks62 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋