Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

I would love to hear that my friend accepts my apology for the stupid things I said to him.

2007-02-14 12:36:47 · 12 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Friends

I am currently dating a wonderful person and he has been divorced for quite some time. His kids have very good communication with their mother, yet he has nothing to do with her. Yet information is relayed back and forth as to what each one is doing and it makes me feel quite uncomfortable since I really get no info. on her but they do go out of their way to make eachothers lives impossible. More on her side than his. I do question him as to what he really thinks of her and he is very negative in his responses and it makes me wonder why he is so considerate towards her. Is it insecurity? Maybe, but do men really move on?

2007-02-14 12:36:38 · 7 answers · asked by Jewels 1 in Singles & Dating

What do I do. I do not the marrige to end but he has a girlfriend. We have 2 kids that I love deeply. HELP ME

2007-02-14 12:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by onehotmama6582 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love this guy ,but he's rude.he lies.I spend my life waiting for any tidbit he will throw my way and he dosen't deserve me.I feel like I have to be there for him. I'm not stupid I just can't seem to break the ties.Iv'e taken care of him for 9 yrs and then left to go have my life but when I feel i'm gonna be ok he's back on the phone or in someway connects.I would tell anyone get on with your life ,but I can't seem to see the forest for the trees.When he comes around he sweet then in a matter of minutes it's the same and then I have to start all over again.I feel like I have to take care of everyone but me?I'm a giver and always seem to find the takers of the world.

2007-02-14 12:35:35 · 10 answers · asked by pepper0000x2002 1 in Singles & Dating

Am sitting here watching the valentines day blizzard and am wondering if anbody else knows how quiet it gest at night when it snows.... so quiet.

2007-02-14 12:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by Belinda 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i went out with this guy for about 3 years and i loved him deeply (i still do) and then his best friend told me that hes been cheating on me so when i called him and asked him he explained it all to me and that he is cheating on me. He said that it was all a mistake and that it was never supposed ti happen. This happened a few months ago and he still calls me everyday and says hes sorry and that he loves me and needs me. I love him too but i dont know if i should give him another chance or not. What do you think i should do?

2007-02-14 12:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by andrea b 2 in Singles & Dating

How to get over a crush on my bestguyfriend. he has a gf and i want to get over him. please help?
i've had a crush on him for about 6 months. he has a girlfriend. i used to be jealous. but i got over it. i trie and find another person to crush on , but i don't like anyone else at my school. how do i get over my best guy friend. i keep thinking about him. We've been knowing each for 3 years. I assume if he didn't try to go with me by now. he does not like me, so i have to move on. please tell me how.

2007-02-14 12:34:38 · 3 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got a new boyfriend last week and i love him a lot. everything is going great and nothing to complain about. however, it doesnt really feel any different from when we were just friends. we are both kind of busy so we havent had too much socializing time.... and we are both shy and newer to dating...what can i do? is this normal to not feel much of a difference?

2007-02-14 12:34:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

34 years ago I was in the Navy and stationed in San Diego, CA. I dated a man for about six months, he was also in the Navy.. His time in the Navy was up and he went back to the East Coast. We kept in touch for a while but then I got orders and we lost tract of each other. In the meantime we both got married and had families, I got divorced. Right before Christmas he contacted me; he said he had been looking for me for quite some time. He said he had been married but his marriage was over. We started corresponding, talking on the phone, planning to meet again, and then all of a sudden I get an email from his wife asking me what I think Im doing. He still says his marriage is over and he has filed for divorce. Should I just walk away from this? I walked away once and regretted it all those years...

2007-02-14 12:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by bbkia50@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So.. there's this guy...and he told me that he likes me.. but now he's telling me about this really hot older girl that wants him. I realllly want him to like me.. i just need to know if you think its worth it or not. if you think that i should keep trying then, do you have ANY ideas to what i can do to get him to like me more? I'd really appreciate your answers, Thanks.

2007-02-14 12:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So theres this guy I met this weekend and if he was there he must be intrested in the same things I am but like do guys tell you weird facts for a reason and he talked to me like once or twice but should I still see if hes gonna be at this place cause I think Im going to find him not just for me Im confusing I know but theres a question in there somewhere.

2007-02-14 12:33:57 · 1 answers · asked by countrygirl101 2 in Singles & Dating

ewww i hate having that time of month.
my self-esteem always gets low during the 5-7 days i have em.

is anyone else this way? =(

2007-02-14 12:33:40 · 4 answers · asked by BRITANI 1 in Singles & Dating

For those that would say they are in love or just have a really good relationship with somebody I want to ask you something and that is How did you guys get into a relationship? Where did you guys first meet? What did you talk about at first? Where was your first date at? As you can tell I have never dated before but I really like this guy but I don't know what to do about it. I am 14 and super shy when it come to these things. Tommarrow morning when I see him before school starts and everything do you think there is something that I should do to him or say to him. He will be with his friends and that's why I'm scared and i won't really get a chance to talk to him any other time. I know that I have to be the one to so something about because he isn't going to like go out of his way to talk to me or anything because like he doesn't even know me. So I'm scared to talk to him and I don't want my friends to do it for me. I want to do it on my own. Any suggestions? What do guys like?

2007-02-14 12:33:36 · 1 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my wife more than life it's self. but she recently came to me and told me that she has been cheating on me. she explained that due to some things that have happened to her in the past that she is in-capable of commitment (my next question was why did you marry me if you knew that). but she did marry me and I am still head over heals in love with her. Now 4 children later she decides that she doesn't love me and she is going to cheat one me.

I have been married twice before, both of those marriages also ended up in me being cheated on. but in both of those marriages I was able to walk away as soon as I found out they were cheating. but with this one I can't, I tried. I love her too much. now for the worst part. she agreed to stay with me and go to councelling and try to work it out. but she told me that even if we do stay togather she CAN NOT promise me that she won't cheat again. I love her enough to over look the first time, and I love her so much that I am...

2007-02-14 12:33:34 · 15 answers · asked by Jon P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not good looking, I don't have much money. I go to an Ivy league school. I am not funny. I am Asian. I am not very athletic but in okay shape. Never had girlfriend, not so good at socializing, I have a little bit of accent when I talk because I am originally from S. Korea. I am gonna die alone aren't I? Just asking for reassurance, (or I believe this is called negative feedback seeking in the field ofpsychology) Oh and I think I will probably lead a long life since I haven't been really sick so far and don't do anything that is dangerous. I will lead very very very boring, lonely, long life. How exciting.

2007-02-14 12:33:21 · 5 answers · asked by 1jizzle 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 12:32:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i lived w/ this guy for 3 years and we had this great relationship for 5 yrs.things went sour went we decided to work abroad.we're both feeling then somethings going on wrong but we didnt talk about it.so, i ended up being the first one to fall.with my mistake,i realized then, i love & need him so much & we should do something about it. he agreed but when i told him what happened to me, he had second thoughts.I couldnt lie. He said,we better see each other & talk about it. So, i went back to our country.While he has to finish his contract. but he used tol find time to communicate to me and i am still welcome to his family. However, as time goes on, he seems to be interested to someone else who is showing affection to him. Though, he told me, he knows he still love me.It has just been hard for him to to forget. However, as time goes by,he seems to be protecting the girl more.Then, he came to the point of telling me, it's up to me if i should wait. I shouldnt be that hopeful he said.

2007-02-14 12:32:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this my friend and she is so loud and gets all the attention from other girls and she is so mean to me. How can I "over rule" her. I try but she always seems to "over rule" me!! I want to be popular and get attention. Advice and help!!

2007-02-14 12:32:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, so when one of my friends asked my crush if he liked me, he said, "uhh, no, why" and he was blushing and looking at the ground! Does this mean he was lying, or just tellin the truth? and my crush's best friend keeps sayin i like him in front of my crush, is this so my crush wants to find out? and one last ques. when he asked me if he liked me (his friend) i said no, i didnt want to get embarrassed!!!! HELP!!!!!!! !!!!!!!! again

2007-02-14 12:32:17 · 15 answers · asked by lucyeunice 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont seem to fit in no matter how hard I try. Guys only like me because I'm pretty and girls are always jelous. I always talk in class but no one calls me their friend. :(

2007-02-14 12:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 12:31:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is Valentine. My day started out great until some guy i disliked to the extreme made a prank sending me a love card as a secret admirer.I thought it was meant to be special from some1 special from my crush. But it was not. That guy Kevin is really an asshole. In my heart, im fighting revenge, but i cant get over it. Help me get it through and tell the guy off to show he upset me. Today is a total disappointment. My crush failed me. Please tell me you care even if you dont know me. Im broken.

2007-02-14 12:30:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do about a boyfriend who is too elaborate, dramatic, and constantly self-absorbed? (Like today, on Valentine's Day...he went WAY too much over-the-top in a really embarrasing manner in front of my friends.) They are afraid of him now, becaus of all these flowers he gave me... they said, "Did you rob the flower store?" to him. Like, a few roses would have been good enough, but than the stuffed animal comes out...and he knows I don't really like stuffed animals as gifts! They know I am trying to deal with him. He does it to compete with the rich people he knows, who really don't give a s^^t about him. I am more "country" and down-to-earth, and he really upsets a lot of people with his diva-like attitude. I've tried to ignore it, call attention to it, ask him why, and he says he won't be like "that" again, but he finds other ways to have no regard for others. All because he wants people to think he's really important, like always busy and on the go.

2007-02-14 12:30:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now that i got your attention, do you guys care if a woman looks at you during $ex? like makes eye contact or looks at your face

2007-02-14 12:30:03 · 6 answers · asked by PAISA 2 in Singles & Dating

she said she wanted to get to know me we were together and broke up twice once i broke up with her then she broke up with me.
noone cheated nothing bad happened.
i got her a valentimes day present and found out the same day i got it she had a b/f one of her friends said if things dint work out with her curent b/f she would go out with me agin.
im still giveing her the necklace and i love her with all my heart and ive passed up 2 girls i know like me b/c she still means alot to me

2007-02-14 12:29:57 · 23 answers · asked by 1confusedGuy 1 in Singles & Dating

Some of you may have read my posts about a certain girl. We are in are early teens. When I first got to know her she was a really sweet and sincere person. I found myself not able to stop thinking about her. Soon I mustered up the courage to ask her to a dance at are school dance. By this time some middle schoolers had pieced it together. i asked the opinion of a few of her friends and they said i should. When I asked her she replied "Finally i have been waiting for you to ask me all night" or something like that. Anyway we have been on and off and she know how i feel. We have had some talks and she said amist all these rumors that constantly go around betwwen us i could always trust her. I care about her and really want to be her boyfriend but I don't know. She sees me as a friend and says she cant se me as more, what does that mean. I sent her a letter on her bday telling her some stuff and telling her she is a great person. Please help me with this. Thank you all for your help.

2007-02-14 12:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by darthranon 1 in Singles & Dating

hey i like this guy who just happened to be my ex boyfriend, but also my ex boyfriend, and he was a real "man-whore" but i know he likes me again, and in two days we'll have a dance and i'm waiting for him to ask me out then, but i keep on asking myself, what if he doesn't? what should i do? i can't move on cuz i know he's the only guy in my entire school i can see myself with although everyones else including my best friends can't see me with anyone! i'm really confused! he's just so stubborn! he told me about a month ago that he was gonna write me a note, so i keep asking him when he's gonna write it, and he keeps saying that i'll find out...i just wanna slap him! how do i let him know that i still like him when i told everyone that i don't anymore? if you even have the patience to read this far, please answer my questions and no stupid ones please!

2007-02-14 12:28:57 · 1 answers · asked by hailz 2 in Singles & Dating

in the shower...this isn't what couples normally do everyday, is it? By the way we are both 16 and virgins......

2007-02-14 12:28:48 · 6 answers · asked by minoru 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you make of this? A man who was very good to you the first six months then you find out what kind of person he really is in that he is jealous and possesive, doesnt want anyone to look at you, always talks about $ and tells you he can tell what kind of work a woman does by the way she dresses, you find he has a history of not breaking up with women but treating them so badly (critical, accusatory, belittling them) that they will break up with him, blames the women as to why the relationship failed, makes statements like "I refuse to be alone" "I will just go out and find someone to use temporarily to be happy" "Heavy set women are easy to get" "I dont expect anyone to trust me" "If I go to the bar, I never leave emptyhanded" "I used to be a sick minded person, I would leave one's house and go to anothers but I decided to change" and always bragging , he cheated and marries 2 mo. later a girl who is heavy with $ she has same ring he gave 3 others. He met most women in bars.

2007-02-14 12:28:48 · 16 answers · asked by jeannie64 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and we just recently got engaged. About a year ago she kissed another guy, she admitted that it was a mistake and I eventually forgave her and we stayed together. I really love her, but I can't manage to forget the past. I have tried talking to her about it, but it upsets her. I just want to put the past behind me and let us move on with our lives. Can someone please help me?

2007-02-14 12:28:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating