Some of you may have read my posts about a certain girl. We are in are early teens. When I first got to know her she was a really sweet and sincere person. I found myself not able to stop thinking about her. Soon I mustered up the courage to ask her to a dance at are school dance. By this time some middle schoolers had pieced it together. i asked the opinion of a few of her friends and they said i should. When I asked her she replied "Finally i have been waiting for you to ask me all night" or something like that. Anyway we have been on and off and she know how i feel. We have had some talks and she said amist all these rumors that constantly go around betwwen us i could always trust her. I care about her and really want to be her boyfriend but I don't know. She sees me as a friend and says she cant se me as more, what does that mean. I sent her a letter on her bday telling her some stuff and telling her she is a great person. Please help me with this. Thank you all for your help.
2007-02-14 12:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by darthranon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and tell her
2007-02-14 12:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly man, I have to be honest with you, I don't think she would feel the same way for you. If she sees you only as a friend, then I may believe theres where it ends. Friends forever soard of speak. Now, disreguarding all these doubts, I would encourage you to at least be straight with her, I mean express yourself emotionally and show how you feel about her and show what she means to you. We all lose and win. Don't be the one to lose without trying because you'll regret it entirely and feel worst than it may seem. As far as age, it's not a problem, we all experience it and avoid negative thoughts and comments. Anyway, once you let her now, truthfully how you feel, see how interested she'll be in your comments and expressions. Try to look her in the eye. Look at her when she replies and you may learn a thing or to from her.
There may be occasions when a girl may only refuse to accept their friend as more than that, due to the fact that she might be affraid of loosing you over a stupid thought. Let's not get carried away by that. Don't fear rejection and regret. Keep your head up and my best wishes with that girl.
2007-02-14 20:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Luis G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can be persistent and she may change her mind but be prepared she may not. I have known lots of guys that I should have dated but just didn't feel the chemistry. Get her jealous and stir things up. That may peak her interest a little - she needs to see you as sexy and desireable.
2007-02-14 20:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by LDR02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she only sees you as a friend then there is your answer, she doesn't find you attractive as a person to date. you have to move on and find someone who feels the same as you, believe me. it'll all be better than to wait for someone who doesn't see you that way.
2007-02-14 20:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by randini692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno ppl say age is just a number...but i still say ur too young for love
2007-02-14 20:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋