I dont seem to fit in no matter how hard I try. Guys only like me because I'm pretty and girls are always jelous. I always talk in class but no one calls me their friend. :(
2007-02-14 12:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself. That's all there is to it. Some people will like you, but some won't; there's nothing to be heartbroken over, since you're not going to meet every person on the planet in this lifetime, anyway. So chill out and have fun, okay?
2007-02-14 12:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said you weren't pretty and didn't fit in that would make more sense. But if you are an attractive person yet you don't seem to have as many friends as you want then perhaps you aren't outgoing enough.
I would suggest joining some different clubs in school. Maybe taking up a sport. Anything where you are more or less forced to get to know people more. I think you will make more friends this way.
Also, when you are interacting with others always try to think of what they want - not what you want. You will become known as a caring and considerate person and will have no shortage of friends.
2007-02-14 20:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by humbert_vs_quilty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't try so hard, they may feel like your trying too hard, and they don't trust your sincerity. One of those guys may be interested in more than just your looks, once they were given the chance to get to know you. Girls at your age, always compare themselves to other girls...and I do believe that if another girl is quite pretty, they have preconceived ideas about her. How about having a get together at your house, and invite boys and girls for a fun filled night. Maybe this will give them a chance to know you more just "another pretty girl."
2007-02-14 20:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pretty can be a real bummer. Maybe you walk around with you're nose too high in the air. Try coming back down to earth.Maybe you're standards are too high.
2007-02-14 20:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean u just have a couple of friends who know how you really are and all yhe girls hate u couse guys think youre really cute ones u get a boyfriend everybody will get over the idea
2007-02-14 20:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by moniquita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're jealous get over em u'll find people that love u for who u r && dont try to fit in... you'll be fitted in just fine when u find that perfect group of friends<3.
2007-02-14 20:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by BRITANI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not hard enough. If you really want a friend, a good one. Just call me.
2007-02-14 20:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by devid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fit in where you want to
2007-02-14 20:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother trying to become another of the clones we call this generations youth. be yourself. i know that sounds cheesy but there are so few people who do that it totally pisses me off
2007-02-14 20:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't fit in. That is how people think of you.
2007-02-14 20:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋