well i went out with this guy for about 3 years and i loved him deeply (i still do) and then his best friend told me that hes been cheating on me so when i called him and asked him he explained it all to me and that he is cheating on me. He said that it was all a mistake and that it was never supposed ti happen. This happened a few months ago and he still calls me everyday and says hes sorry and that he loves me and needs me. I love him too but i dont know if i should give him another chance or not. What do you think i should do?
2007-02-14 12:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by andrea b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, its up to you if you want to forgive him or not. I know we can forgive but we can't forget. But whatever happens learn to trust him again and let him show you how sorry he really is and how much he wants you and cherish you!
2007-02-14 12:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by lAVi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. How do you know for sure he won't do it again? Would he even admit to you if you didn't ask ? I know that most girls would give him a second chance, but why ? Why wait to find out that he's never changed while you could move on to another one who appreciate you more and take relationship more serious? I know it's hard to be single again but if you were ok before you met him , you'll survive this time. No one deserves to be cheated on. And if it makes you feel better, think about the girl that he's with. If he cheated on you, he'll probably do the same thing to her. Be nice to yourself and have a happy Valentine's day.
2007-02-14 12:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by mhn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone, both guys and girls, can cheat and lie. Therefore, we do not know if your BF is telling the truth. There is no correlation between cheat once and cheating again in the future.
If you really love him, then get along. If not, dump him.
The best advice would to ask his best friend and your friends that know your current BF for advice. Your other friends will be able to tell you the other side (possible bad) that you are not able to see (bc you are blinded by love).
2007-02-14 12:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by RWC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone cheats on you they break the trust relationship, I did gave my ex a second chance once but on back your mind you will always think they might do it again so at the end it didn't work because once they break the trust its gone. Thats my opinion so for you,you have to decide wether he is worth of a second chance or not. Good luck
2007-02-14 12:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by bar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most cheaters continue what they've been doing all along. He proberly has the satisfaction of knowing you couldn't figure it out for a while. He'll proberly do it again just because he thinks he can get away with it. Being too nice.... is not a good thing... say bye bye.. and 'maybe' continue talking to him.
2007-02-14 12:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to end the relationship and try and heal. Then find someone who will appreciate and love you enough to be faithful and committed to you.
Forgive him for cheating, but don't give him a second chance. Let him go.
2007-02-14 12:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, I wouldn't give him a chance because it is wasting the time.
If you give him a chance you will go back to a relationship where you don't trust him and it is awful, you don't enjoy, he does not enjoy and relationship is a hell. I would save it. Besides a person who cheats once can cheat again.
2007-02-14 12:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him alot and can't think of anything else except for him, then I'd give him another chance. If he does it again, then that's it. Good luck.
2007-02-14 12:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by jorarmando 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-02-14 12:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You the one with hurt feelings so you know what to do.
2007-02-14 12:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋