34 years ago I was in the Navy and stationed in San Diego, CA. I dated a man for about six months, he was also in the Navy.. His time in the Navy was up and he went back to the East Coast. We kept in touch for a while but then I got orders and we lost tract of each other. In the meantime we both got married and had families, I got divorced. Right before Christmas he contacted me; he said he had been looking for me for quite some time. He said he had been married but his marriage was over. We started corresponding, talking on the phone, planning to meet again, and then all of a sudden I get an email from his wife asking me what I think Im doing. He still says his marriage is over and he has filed for divorce. Should I just walk away from this? I walked away once and regretted it all those years...
2007-02-14 12:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by bbkia50@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, walk. you don't need his stupidity. Obviously, they still have things to figure out. YOU my friend are going to end up heartbroken and labled the home wrecker, Leave as fast as you can sweetie..
2007-02-14 12:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Inthearts 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't walk away, you did that once. Don't make the same mistake again! Sometimes we meet someone and time and place are wrong. You are in touch again, if he means something to you find out what is really going on. If he has filed for divorce his wife might be trying to get him back.
2007-02-14 21:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by raspberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his wife to ask him "what he think he's doing". You're not the one to blame for their failure. And surely you're not the one to clear her doubts. So you can keep having a friendship with him, and if his wife continues bothering you, confront them both at the same time, in the same place. Good luck.
2007-02-14 20:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by cecilia d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away.. Even if he was getting a divorce, its way too soon to start a new relationship after his breakup..
Sounds very fishy.
2007-02-14 20:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who needs the drama finish it up then come to me later.
2007-02-14 20:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away..I agree w/the other answer...too soon after divorce...
2007-02-14 20:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by kallieray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would find out the truth and decide from there see who lied him or his wife good luck
2007-02-18 15:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain strictly friends til you see divorces papers.......
2007-02-14 20:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋