Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

i work with a female that just found out the man she was seeing (off and on now for 3 years) has moved on and found a girlfriend. As she would speak about him in the past, i could tell she was a bottie call (someone that he just slept with). She had never been to his house, and had never met any of his friends or family.
She busted him on myspace talking with and had pictures all over his page with him and this new female.
This happened 2 weeks ago, and she is still crying!!! i'm getting pretty sick of her not working and sitting there balling her eyes out!!
i am not insensitive by any means, i've given her my shoulder to cry on many times during this fiasco and i try to talk to her about moving on, but she isn't listening to me. She keeps calling him and emailing him, with no response from him.
Have you ever wanted to say...Get Over It!!!???
Any suggestions on how to handle this?!?!

2007-02-13 07:22:39 · 4 answers · asked by **Lil QT** 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

married friend, whom, I told in a round about way i thought she was attractive, appears to have taken offence. In these days when it seems ok to talk about anything, was i wrong?

2007-02-13 07:22:00 · 6 answers · asked by wally 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't go to her school, so I sent her some flowers to her school, do you think she will like it or will she be embarrassed? We've known each other for about a year now and we have hung out a couple of times and each time we hang out we always laugh and have a good time together and I thought by doing this she would see that I like her a lot.

Thanks

2007-02-13 07:21:08 · 21 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-13 07:20:47 · 3 answers · asked by tootalll12 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I got engaged last month, we are in a long-distance relationship. I really don't remember what I said but I alluded to not liking my ring (I know it was superficial and stupid) but everything was fine with us for 2 weeks until he started to not call me when he usually does and I started to get mad. I pressed the issue and he finally said that I really hurt his feelings about the ring. I know this I apologized over and over but than he told me he needed to rethink things and he needed a few days to think. Now its D-day and I'm waiting for him to call, and I'm certain that he's decided that he wants to break up. Just because in those few days we weren't talking....we weren't talking and when you're alone you can talk yourself into anything. He always says once his mind is made up there is no changing it so I'm scared as to what to do. I wrote him an e-mail to at least get something in from my end. We never fight like this. What's up?

2007-02-13 07:19:51 · 6 answers · asked by Smithy14 2 in Singles & Dating

but i don't konw if i can live alone..

2007-02-13 07:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by Mama 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you treat her boyfriend nicely? Do you try to scare them away if you know he likes her?

if she's 15...by the way, you guys...im not the mom, im the daughter lol

2007-02-13 07:18:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's 14. i'm 12. and i haven't seen him since 2004 or 2005. we have like a friendster profile where i'm his friend. he just gave me a message this friday saying that i've grown , and he's asking how i'm doing. he also asked if I could add him on ym, so I did. and some other stuff. i barely know him that well, except he was the guy that annoyed me a lot when he came over our house. what does he want? he left like a lot of messages today on my ym . i haven't talked to him in like 3 years, and i think it was just random for him to say hi. He kept on talking to me and looking at my profile while he had a bunch of other friends. he's been asking me when i would come back to our country which is halfway across the world. i mean, my bro is 14 too, and he's already there. y does he need to ask me when all he needs is my bro? he's nice really at times and he's really cute. and when i last saw him, he wasn't that cute.

sorry if its long. btw, i said hi to him back. he's really nice and sweet

2007-02-13 07:18:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Also what does it mean when man and women catches each other scent? Not talking about perfume or being funky.

2007-02-13 07:18:25 · 5 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

how do I get to know them better?

2007-02-13 07:17:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents have been split up for as long as I can remember, they finalized the divorce. Then after Christmas my aunt (dads sister) accidently told my brother & me that my dad is getting married in July. She said my dad didn't want to call us cause he didn't want to talk to my mom. He has both of our cell phone numbers, and he saw us on Thanksgiving and Christmas (plently of time to tell us himself.) My cousin & I are really close and we were talking about it, apparently she's known about for a LONG time, she said she found out a while before Thanksgiving. So basically my whole family has been leaving my brother and me in the dark about the whole situation. We didn't even receive invitations and there is a set date. I live in Missouri & he lives in Oklahoma which is were the wedding is taking place. I really don't want to go. My grandparents are gunna give me a hard time about it cause he's my dad. Although he's never been there like a dad should. Should I go?

2007-02-13 07:17:36 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Been single for 5 years. I go to work and take care of my family. I don't go many places so what is the best way to meet people and find a special someone.

2007-02-13 07:17:15 · 5 answers · asked by madmom73 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess I'm looking in all the wrong places. Where can I find a man that will spoil me. Don't tell me to get a damn job! Thanks everyone~!

2007-02-13 07:16:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been best friends with a male for about 9 years now. He calls me 2 to 3 times a day and we can talk about any and everything. We both said that we can't imagine not being best friends, our friendship is more like a "brother sister" situation. I have been married for 4 years now, and I feel like I am not a close to my husband as I am to my "brother". I told my male bf that I had fallen in love with him, but he said that he never looked at me like that, but sometimes he tells me that he loves me and he don't know what he would do without me. He tells me that I am beautiful and he treats his many women like crap, yet he has never disrespected me or hurt me in any way. He is not stable because my husband made me choose between him and my bf, when I chose my husband, he got mad at me and he felt like I had put my husband before him. He said that we have been friends longer than I have known my husband. I feel like he depends on me too much and I need to stop it, what should i do?

2007-02-13 07:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by MovingOnWithMyLife..Your Loss! 1 in Friends

If you ask him to spend the night?

2007-02-13 07:16:09 · 11 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing this guy for about a month. he is very nice and straightforward, he works and has his own place. but i am becoming bored with him, he works 2 jobs and his only free day is saturday and we usually hang out then, he considers himself a simple man, a homebody but it is making me restless as i like to get out and have fun. im used to more excitement in my life and i dont know how to approach him with that. maybe he's just not into me, i mean he is the one that approached me.

2007-02-13 07:15:28 · 16 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 07:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Rachael P 1 in Singles & Dating

the love of my life broke up with me last week, she says that she doesnt love any more romantically, but i love her like an idot. should i send her some flowers for Valentines. Please advice and remeber i am heart broken right now but i miss her and want her to have this. should i or i shoulnt. In a month we are going to talk again and see what happens but i dont think she wants me back in her life. I am so messed up right now! Prefer women answer this questions thanks

2007-02-13 07:14:50 · 15 answers · asked by leomebaby 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 07:14:33 · 6 answers · asked by MEEM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-13 07:14:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyrfiend yesterday and I didn't cry or anything. He cried and I felt so bad but I just couldn't go on pretending to be happy anymore. I kinda miss him but not enough to do anything about it. I'm only 17 and he always talked about marriage and children. I have to give him his phone back today but I don't want him to start crying again and make me feel worse about it. But am I mean for not showing any emotion?

2007-02-13 07:14:12 · 11 answers · asked by amberlynne_2007 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 07:13:43 · 7 answers · asked by Fran 1 in Family

i think my bf doesn't really care about me
he is indifferent
he haven't seen each other for 2 weeks
and i wanted to spend the weekend with him but he was like
aren't we meting on Thursday?
yea
then he is like if we didn't meet 2 weeks does it mean that i should
stay with u 24/7
it was really sad

what should i do?
it doesnt really seem that he cares right?

2007-02-13 07:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by fifi 1 in Singles & Dating

Yeah my name is [?]. Im an 8th grader. I need help choosing which guy i should actually fall in love with. But i need [YOUR] help. There are two main guys that i like. One is in wrestling and his name is Chad. The other one is training to be America's next Idol. His name is Ethan. I went out with Ethan once already for almost two months. Seriously i broke up with him 2 days before it would have been 2 months together. I was so dumb to do it. He may be goth but i seem like i like him alot. Since its Valentines week our school was selling flowers. I bought a pink one for Chad which means "secret admirer." But i didnt buy a flower at all for Ethan. I have no clue of what to do any more. Someone please help!! I need your advice & comments terribly.


SIGNED-[?]

2007-02-13 07:13:26 · 3 answers · asked by [being strong, holdin on] 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not from the USA, but it seems that over there most couples get married within a couple of years..what´s the hurry? I was with my husband 12 years before getting maried (we did live together,so it was more or less the same thing)

2007-02-13 07:13:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated a 30 year old guy for a year and a half. Loved him, was completely loyal to him and treated him very well and with repect. He said he wasn't a cheater, but I found out that he was and that he was stringing myself and another girl along both of us for over a year. I told her and then he popped the big question to her. I have a real problem. . . I work with him and he still picks at me a year after we have stopped seeing each other. He knows I'm intelligent and he asks me for help but I find it extremely irritating and have put up with it for so long that I really want to be immature and hateful to him - please advise!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-13 07:12:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i get my boyfriend a Valentines gift if we've only been going out for about a week? and if I should what should i get him?

2007-02-13 07:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by Hi!! 2 in Singles & Dating

You see, I have this friend that thinks shes all better than me and she keeps saying " Are you mad at me?" And we're all like"no" but she doesn't live here anymore and we all know we're all mad at her!!!!!!! PLEZ help me tell her that I'm furious at her without hurting her feelings.

2007-02-13 07:12:26 · 4 answers · asked by Soup Girl 1 in Friends

I'm from New Jersey , and moved to California in 2003. I'm an African american woman and it is so hard to get a black man around here. Most are either gay or are dating white women. I have no problem with interacial relationships or gay relationships because where I come from everyone dates everyone and I like it like that, but it seems that most black guys have a lot of animosity towards black women out here. I'm not one that breaks out in an attitude or am loud and obnoxious. I'm very positive and always cheerful. I do anything and everything for the ones I love, but I still receive cold shoulders from black guys when I'm out. Now in my past I have never really had great relationships with any of the black men that are in my life, but that doesn't make me bitter towards them. I still love my African American brothers, because I still see the positive effect that they have on this earth. I just want to know how other people feel about thi

2007-02-13 07:11:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughters father has never paid child support, and never even got her anything. she is 4 and will be 5 in aug. He hasnt seen her in over a year and before he would only come visit her when he wanted sex from me. But i have cut him off from the sex and he hasnt came back around I even asked him to get her something for xmas last year of 05and he said he would if he had the money. I found out after my son passed away that he paid for himself and 4 of his friends to go to a slip knot consert which was 25.00 for each ticket, and he also got himself and those 4people hits of ectasy at 50.00 a pill that was right before xmas of 05, I was mad he couldnt even buy her a colouring book and crayons you know. he always has money to party but never for her I have the papers filled out I just havent turned them in . What do u think I should do. also I dont mind raising her own my own I can offord too I just dont feel its fair for her or me

2007-02-13 07:11:13 · 15 answers · asked by 2WOLVES 2 in Family