Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

i'm 14 and i'm freaking out cuz i've never dated a guy, nor kissed a guy and when i look at my class, i see that even the fattest girl has had a boyfriend and the ugliest girl as well so i don't know what to think! my 3 friends are also in same situation as me (we're kinda nerdy but not ugly nor fat!) but the rest of the 9th graders all have a boy/girlfriend and some even had sex!... it scares me to see that even my little brother (2 years younger than me) has had a girlfriend AND kissed before - i feel like a loser. because when i look at myself, i don't find myself ugly nor fat so i really don't understand! i mean, i'm not a bimbo with huge breasts and i don't wear any make up nor wear slutty clothes if THAT'S what attracts guys. and, another BIG problem: i'm really really tall for my age (6 feet) and guys my age are smaller! do i have a problem? normally, you get your first kiss in preschool... at what age did all these things happen to you? I'M FREAKING OUT!

2007-02-13 06:48:25 · 2 answers · asked by Lux 4 in Singles & Dating

But she doesn't want to see anyone else, How should i take that

2007-02-13 06:48:24 · 19 answers · asked by jeff t 1 in Singles & Dating

so i have this ex boyfriend who recently is with another girl.. but i found out thru a friend that she is with another guy but i don't know how to tell my ex. We were close friends, but ever since he got with her, he drifted away from me. What can i do to make him think that im not jealous but im just watching his back?

2007-02-13 06:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by eeekkk 3 in Singles & Dating

phone s*x theory.....I keep ruining cell phones so I thought I'd try it at work and I received a letter of warning.....No one told me that your not suppose to use speaker phone!



You guys have any tips or pointers for me?

2007-02-13 06:48:16 · 11 answers · asked by Karen 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi!

2007-02-13 06:47:33 · 11 answers · asked by charming_imogen 2 in Singles & Dating

i wrote my husband a letter telling him that he must care about his sisters feelings more then me and his kids because he cant confront her about the crap she pulls or she might get mad at him and that she must be number 1 and we are number 2, she has been acting like she is being helpful by doing my laundry and then she steals my baby's clothes, he wouldnt ever consider confronting her. its easier done by writing a letter and warning him i might pick up and leave if he continues this behaivior, good idea?

2007-02-13 06:47:33 · 8 answers · asked by americansugar80 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes you have a few partners as they tend not to be what you expect when you go out with them so you move on... Then some clever man has the cheek to call us tarts or sl*gs, or even worse.
When a man goes out there to 'lay' as many women as he can he is classed as some sort of stud and gets admiration rather than hurtful remarks. Why is this?? It smacks of double standards to me :o(

2007-02-13 06:46:56 · 18 answers · asked by squidgy_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

plz help me out . Im looking for a guy named NIRE. how can i find him I just know his first name.plzzzzzzzz help me out

2007-02-13 06:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by sxy eyes 1 in Friends

i want to advise my sister for best life for her

2007-02-13 06:46:37 · 4 answers · asked by z_samer84 1 in Friends

2007-02-13 06:45:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is a disabled veteran and my kids get money too. but the thing is we dont get it. the money go's to him and then he keeps what he wonts and he sends the rest to his son, then his son takes what he wonts, then we gets whats left. well now we dont get anything. what can we do. please someone help us.

2007-02-13 06:45:24 · 6 answers · asked by rachell s 1 in Weddings

2007-02-13 06:45:18 · 36 answers · asked by dmama81 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you still E-Mail Me in the morning?

LiL EarlE

The Postal Service Rules

2007-02-13 06:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by LiL EarlE 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 06:45:08 · 9 answers · asked by Dominique J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 06:45:03 · 1 answers · asked by gemini0521 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 06:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by proudsueloud 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think there is a definite plus to being alone: you don't have to buy anyone gifts. LOL, just kidding. The plus is that you learn to make yourself complete, rather than waiting for a relationship to do that for you. What do you think?

2007-02-13 06:44:22 · 7 answers · asked by rhiannon2797 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know sommone who cheated on his wife with a younger women and then cheated on his mistress with her daughter. why? i want answers from the men and women

2007-02-13 06:44:03 · 9 answers · asked by ricki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1. I will not open the car doors for you unless you have no arms. Especially now that we have remote control for doors why should guys still do that?

2. No I will not buy you flowers or gifts unless it's absolutely special occasion

3. I want you to treat you equal and I shouldn't have to treat you like I'm worshiping you or something, like opening car doors (it's so retarded)

4. I don't mind paying when we go out but I expect her to pitch in now and then unless she doesn't have a job or really poor.

5 I expect her to cook for me sometimes and give me massage.

6 I only want to see her when I want to.

7. I will go out with my buddies whenever I want to unless she and I made plans already.

8. I will always come first and then my jobs, then the girl or my friends.

So do girls like a guy like that? I'm just being honest!

2007-02-13 06:43:58 · 38 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Singles & Dating

I have always believed, that if you care, time can be "created"

2007-02-13 06:43:40 · 2 answers · asked by chocolateknight69 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay me and my friend have been hanging out alot( for the past 6 months) he is married i have to kids i am 17 one is his and 1 is a ex of mine me and his wife are really good he is great wit my kids they both call him daddy!!!! his wife does not know that one of them are his what should i do???

2007-02-13 06:42:59 · 5 answers · asked by i needhim7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend are getting condoms but we just wanted to know, is there a specific kind thats better?

2007-02-13 06:42:51 · 9 answers · asked by ksks1cucuzz 1 in Singles & Dating

im planning on gettin my gf a single rose and a teddy bear and a necklace then take her out to dinner tonite.weve been goin out for bout a month.is this good enough?

2007-02-13 06:42:14 · 31 answers · asked by nuttiecleva2 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you really bond with someone's children like you would your own?

2007-02-13 06:42:11 · 13 answers · asked by britches 2 in Singles & Dating

When our daughter was born, my wife slept with her in a twin bed in a room I had decorated for the baby. My wife said, "This is the Filipino way" (I am not Filipino; she is.) I asked her how long this would go on. She said, "Until she is 5 or 5-1/2." When she became 5-1/2 the same practice continued. So in anger I moved out of the master bedroom into my daughter's room and took down the decorations, and put the decorations in the master bedroom. So I slept in a twin bed in my daughter's room, and our daughter got to sleep on our queen size with my wife in a twin bed pushed next to the queen. This lasted for 3 to 3-1/2 years. In January 2005 my wife moved our queen size into our daughter's room . I thought she had a change of heart, but it only lasted six months. Since then she spends a couple of months with me and then always has some reason to go back and spend a couple of months with our daughter. I'm angry with this and now don't want her back in the room. What is going on here?

2007-02-13 06:42:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 19 and almost 6 months pregnant and my husband and i are seriously considering a divorce. I am heart broken, and scared to death. please any words of wisedom, or advice to help me get through this........ it hurts so bad, i have never felt a hurt like this before. How do i make it stop hurting... i can't stop crying and i feel so hopeless,lonely, and HORRIBLE all around.

2007-02-13 06:41:49 · 10 answers · asked by NewMommy!!! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 yrs old and my parents are divorced. my father doesnt pay child support. is it possible when i turn 18 an then sue him for it? or is it to late then? i am not to sure where in the u.s. he might be. he is a cross country truck driver. thank you for your help.

2007-02-13 06:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by bears_are_coolest 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you want this with one another, fine, but please NOT with men! It makes me want to rip my hair out when you 've communicated the idea, and then add and extra short story on top of it!

2007-02-13 06:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am just starting to date again after 10 years. I am a gentleman in most ways. I find women are calling me tame because I don't push for sex or talk suggestively right away. I am going out for the first time with this really great woman Sat. We talk on the phone every night and lose ourselfs in time while talking. I like her and don't want to lose her before we have the chance to see where things are going. So how do I know how fast is to fast or to slow to show sexual interest. And how do I let her know I have this interest without making it seem like that is what I am after? Do I wait for her to make the first move and if not, what would a be an OK first move that doesn't pressure her?

2007-02-13 06:39:43 · 7 answers · asked by sir_gallant68 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a boy and I think he likes me to; He alyws looks at me and smiles at me, looks for me, wants to spend time with me, talk to me and he asks my input a lot. I am to afaird to ask HOW DO I TELL HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-02-13 06:39:25 · 14 answers · asked by Links 2 in Singles & Dating