so i have this ex boyfriend who recently is with another girl.. but i found out thru a friend that she is with another guy but i don't know how to tell my ex. We were close friends, but ever since he got with her, he drifted away from me. What can i do to make him think that im not jealous but im just watching his back?
2007-02-13 06:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by eeekkk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol yea all my friends tell me its none of business either.. but he really is a great guy and he doesnt deserve that. >.< so far im letting it go on..
2007-02-13 06:51:44 · update #1
first just tell him that his gf is cheating on him............if that doesn't work its up to you...you can either try to prove it to him or you can just let him get hurt......if you tried and hes too irresponsible to think of anything but jelousy then thats his own problem............but good luck and i think that you should tell him if you still have feelings for him
2007-02-13 06:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, You HEARD it from a friend that she is with someone else. That is hear-say and not admissible. He will not believe it until HE sees it, and neither should you. If you persist in wanting to shed light on this subject. Photos, or by taking him to see these two people together. Anything less than that is asking for trouble in your friendship. Even that will place a strain on your friendship. Choose wisely. If I were you, I would let well enough alone. Good Luck.
2007-02-13 14:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough, it all depends on how good of friends you are with the guy if he knows that you want him to be happy even though you 2 arent together then he wouldnt look at it as being jealous. Its best to tell him.
2007-02-13 14:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by gabbwgville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, talk to him about other things first. Then lead in to it. Ask him how he would feel if he found out his girlfriend was cheating. Then go from there. But let him know you care too much about him to ruin a good friendship over jealousy.
2007-02-13 14:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to tell him and if he doesn't believe you then just let him find out his self.
2007-02-13 14:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dominique J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. If hea can't respect that you are looking out for him, screw him. He deserves what he gets. Friends are more important
2007-02-13 14:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him some proof that can't be denied.And if you want to get back with him,Tell him and prove it without a doubt.Good luck.Peace
2007-02-13 14:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allthough your intentions are admirable, i think you should leave well alone.he l find out for himself sooner or lata then perhaps you cud b a shoulder to cry on.
2007-02-13 14:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by nelster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it and let him learn on his own.
2007-02-13 14:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a pay phone and call him but don't give your name. Change your voice and tell him.
2007-02-13 14:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋