I am just starting to date again after 10 years. I am a gentleman in most ways. I find women are calling me tame because I don't push for sex or talk suggestively right away. I am going out for the first time with this really great woman Sat. We talk on the phone every night and lose ourselfs in time while talking. I like her and don't want to lose her before we have the chance to see where things are going. So how do I know how fast is to fast or to slow to show sexual interest. And how do I let her know I have this interest without making it seem like that is what I am after? Do I wait for her to make the first move and if not, what would a be an OK first move that doesn't pressure her?
2007-02-13 06:39:43 · 7 answers · asked by sir_gallant68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
am just starting to date again after 10 years. I am a gentleman in most ways. I find women are calling me tame because I don't push for sex or talk suggestively right away. I am going out for the first time with this really great woman Sat. We talk on the phone every night and lose ourselfs in time while talking. I like her and don't want to lose her before we have the chance to see where things are going. So how do I know how fast is to fast or to slow to show sexual interest. And how do I let her know I have this interest without making it seem like that is what I am after? Do I wait for her to make the first move and if not, what would a be an OK first move that doesn't pressure her?
2007-02-13 06:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by mani kaliannan 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
There's a healthy balance of "inbetween" too fast and too slow. If sat night is the first date, it's too soon. Let things gel between you two. That usually takes the first couple of dates. The right moment will come up, and you'll know when it is. When it comes, take advantage of it without feeling guilty. Then keep an honest and open line of communication between you two as to what it is you're looking for in the relationship. Good luck!
2007-02-13 14:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by launchpad235 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women want sex, and if you move too quickly you will know by her reaction. I like the more subtle move, and a guy who will kiss me then more on the next date and so on. Some women are after just sex but it sounds like she is into more than that. Just take it a little slow, but be confident, she'll respond
2007-02-13 17:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be yourself + confident. Women nowadays out in the dating world seem to be sexual predators. It also seemed to me that if I didn't pursue them "sexually" they seemed to lose interest. You can't make someone like or want you, so be yourself and if she is interested, then you will have a second date, third date, fourth date...
2007-02-13 14:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you are out on a date, softly rub her hand, thigh, or arm. She will think it is sweet and not pushy. If she responds back with a little rub to your thigh then you can go in for a kiss. You will know when too or not too. You'll also know when to go to the next level by her reactions.
2007-02-13 14:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Karen A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her make the first move and she will if she wants you if she does not the only alternative you have is to go for it.
2007-02-13 14:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you share a full kiss, chances are she will let you into the promise land.
2007-02-13 14:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋