Okay me and my friend have been hanging out alot( for the past 6 months) he is married i have to kids i am 17 one is his and 1 is a ex of mine me and his wife are really good he is great wit my kids they both call him daddy!!!! his wife does not know that one of them are his what should i do???
2007-02-13 06:42:59 · 5 answers · asked by i needhim7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I won't condemn you like some others here. But I think the most important thing you should think about is the welfare of your children. They have the legal right to be supported by their fathers in the amount set by law. This becomes ever more important as they get older and need medical care and financial support for college and other things. If you don't have it already, I strongly advise you to get a support order requiring the father to pay child support according to his income. This may mess things up between you, him and his wife; but your child's welfare is more important than any of that. So--you should see a social worker and get instructions on how to proceed on this matter.
2007-02-13 07:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 17 and with two kids, you need to stop and grow up. If you are friends with his wife you are a hypocrite and can't be trusted. Why dont you grow up a bit, stop having unprotected sex with everyone you meet and make a life for the two kids you already have. He is also no good to be hanging out with you.
2007-02-13 06:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn , ur parents need to come in and rescue ur children from you, u need ALOTTTTTTTTTTTTT.. of psychological help.. wait, let me retract that, because if your the type of person that ur parents raised then obviously they did something wrong, so someone with half a brain needs to come in to this picture and take these kids before u screw up their lives even more then ur screwing up ur own.. Simply PATHETIC..
2007-02-13 06:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made yourself very clear. No matter how many times you ask this question, you are still a loser and you are on a path to DESTROY innocent lives.
Leave it alone. Leave him alone. Leave her alone. Focus on your kids.
2007-02-13 06:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS long as he is paying support, keep it that way..
2007-02-13 06:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋