he is a disabled veteran and my kids get money too. but the thing is we dont get it. the money go's to him and then he keeps what he wonts and he sends the rest to his son, then his son takes what he wonts, then we gets whats left. well now we dont get anything. what can we do. please someone help us.
2007-02-13 06:45:24 · 6 answers · asked by rachell s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
to the guy that said get a job. well let me tell you something. I took care of him for 26 years. I'm the one who works, not him. He is a drug addite. I lift him, because he beat me evey day. well I got smart and got out.
2007-02-13 07:13:56 · update #1
Go to the friend of the court, they should be able to get the money deducted from his check, if you have kept tabs on what you have received from him they will also be able to direct you on how to get back payments. I don't know how it is there, but in Michigan if a father is behind on child support he can be arrested and forced to pay up
2007-02-13 07:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by scarlett13854 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a court order in place that says how much he needs to pay a month in support then he must abide by that. If it is a benefit becuase he is disabled I would say contact the veterans agency in California, or from wherever his case might be.
I am thinking that if he is incorrectly using the money that is supposed to go for the care of his children than he will be held up in fraud.
If nothing else, contact a lawyer to discuss other options. Many provide a free analysis of your case.
And GOOD for you to leave that man- you and your children deserved way better. That was a hard move but better for you in the long run!
2007-02-13 07:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call Veterans Affairs..
2007-02-13 06:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the Vetrans office. Also check with your lawyer, because if its a court ordered payment that he's not making, those checks can be garnished, and the payment sent directly to you from the court. Good luck.
2007-02-13 06:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer and a legal child support settlement.
2007-02-13 08:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be such a deadbeat and go get a job whiner
2007-02-13 06:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋