Do you treat her boyfriend nicely? Do you try to scare them away if you know he likes her?
if she's 15...by the way, you guys...im not the mom, im the daughter lol
2007-02-13 07:18:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I treat him with the same respect he shows me, even if I don't like him.
No sense in trying to scare anyone away - at 15 it will only encourage them to rebel.
2007-02-13 07:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by LSG 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all concentrate in school that is very important. Is more important that having a boyfriend. Now to your question regarless of what the parent might think about the boyfriend. Is not going to change the girls feeling or the boys feeling about the other one. I have a 3 year old daughter and I know she is going to go thru this some day everyone does. I would get to know the boy first. And if he is a good boy I will allowed that relationship with rules of course. And hope that my daughter doesn't betray my trust. No I wouldn't try to scare him off. But not every one is the same. Every parent is different.
Don't forget the parents only want the best for their child.
2007-02-13 07:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I worry like any good parent. We only want the best and sometimes it is hard to stop protecting our children even when we know we should start to let them have more freedom and make more choices. I try to treat them nice but keep a very close eye on everything. We know we should let her go and let her make her own choices within reason but it is still hard to let go. We do not do it out of spite but because we just want to protect our daughters. I think this is one of the toughest age group for a parent and young adult. By the way my daughter is 15 also. But in the same breath it is the most rewarding, to be able to see all the life lessons you have been teaching her come to fruit. I could not ask for a better daughter.
2007-02-13 07:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of 2 girls I can tell you I never worried about the guys until they started talking serious about marriage. From as far back as grade school I use to laugh at them for this week they had this bf and next week was a new bf and by the time they were old enough to go on dates (16 BTW) unchaperoned I pretty well knew every one of the boys they went out with. My girls had plenty of friends and we always seemed to have a household full of teens.
2007-02-13 07:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a dad I sit them down and find out what type of person they are and what their intentions are. If they seem to be a decent person than yes I do treat them well and try too make them feel comfortable. I do always let them know if anything bad happens to my daughter he will be held responsible and may very well cost him his life. This is true, if they are decent and caring I am happy for the both of them.
2007-02-13 07:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter has reached 15 an age in which we allow them to date in groups (that we hope they stay in), we set the ground rules for dating. They are made very clear to our daughters as well as the boys they are dating.
The first rule is do not break the rest of the rules, this is not negotiable in any way. Loose my trust, loose the privilege to date.
I do not need to scare the boys off the other two sisters will take care of that for me.
2007-02-13 07:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by desiree c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't mind my daughter dating at 15 as long as I meet the guy and know his background (family/friends). As long as my daughter keeps an open communication with us and no secrets are kept then it should be fine. Hope that helps.
2007-02-13 07:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by EmeraldSun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 26 years old. My mom loves my boyfriend, but my dad is still uncomfortable about it (and we've been dating a year)! I think maybe fathers usually have a hard time letting their "little girls" grow up.
If you really want to date this guy, I would bring him around the family and let him show your parents that he really does care about you, that he's a good guy, and that his intentions are pure. If he won't do that, he's not worth dating.
2007-02-13 07:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by shanniethered 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm 19 and my dad still scares away guys lol, so it all depends on the parents
2007-02-13 07:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly what can a parent do but accept it, regardless she is going to see him with or without her mommies approval...so me being a mom with a daughter close to your age, I think its fine as long as she is being and honest RESPONSIBLE (in every way) young Lady.
Hope it helped =)
2007-02-13 07:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋