You see, I have this friend that thinks shes all better than me and she keeps saying " Are you mad at me?" And we're all like"no" but she doesn't live here anymore and we all know we're all mad at her!!!!!!! PLEZ help me tell her that I'm furious at her without hurting her feelings.
2007-02-13 07:12:26 · 4 answers · asked by Soup Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't focus on the anger. That's YOUR problem.
Tell her that you don't appreciate her better-than-you attitude.
2007-02-13 07:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now let me get this straight, does SHE really think she is better than YOU? or do YOU think SHE is better than you and that makes you jealous? If the case is you have a friend that always puts herself in the limelight paying praises to herself and only puts you down with insults, she isnt a good friend at all let her move away dont contact her anymore, that will show her you really are mad if you stop talking to her.
peace
2007-02-13 15:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by cyclonisz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You appeal to HER feelings by explaining yours. Maybe she doesn't realize how she has come across to you all. You can let her know it by telling her it hurts your feelings to feel as though she thinks she's superior to you. If she doesn't apologize and offer an explanation, she probably doesn't recognize her arrogance.
2007-02-13 15:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you guys were really friends, then you would be straightforward. just tell her that you haven't been completely honest with her, and that now that she has moved away, that you feel guilty about not telling her. take a deep and be brave.
2007-02-13 15:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋