i work with a female that just found out the man she was seeing (off and on now for 3 years) has moved on and found a girlfriend. As she would speak about him in the past, i could tell she was a bottie call (someone that he just slept with). She had never been to his house, and had never met any of his friends or family.
She busted him on myspace talking with and had pictures all over his page with him and this new female.
This happened 2 weeks ago, and she is still crying!!! i'm getting pretty sick of her not working and sitting there balling her eyes out!!
i am not insensitive by any means, i've given her my shoulder to cry on many times during this fiasco and i try to talk to her about moving on, but she isn't listening to me. She keeps calling him and emailing him, with no response from him.
Have you ever wanted to say...Get Over It!!!???
Any suggestions on how to handle this?!?!
2007-02-13 07:22:39 · 4 answers · asked by **Lil QT** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have you never been in love? have you never been in a situation like this or something similar? maybe she isnt as strong as you but everyone takes break-ups differently. you might move on fast without a thought or ever looking back. the next person might take weeks, months or years to get over heartache. i think she is listening to you, but its hard, i have been on both ends before. yes i have thought about telling them to get over it. either you can tell her not to bother you with your problems or tell her one final time how you feel and tell her not to bring him up anymore.
2007-02-13 11:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do:
Stand face to face with your friend. Firmly grab her shoulders. Shake her rigorously. Then slap her.
When she gets mad at you, tell her it was nice to see her not cry for a second and show a different emotion. Then, tell her you're going to slap her again if she doesn't GET OVER IT. That's right--just say it to her! Then, offer to buy her lunch, or take her out dancing where she can let go and have some fun!
2007-02-13 15:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow up, and say what i told my bf when he was all moping around and sad over his exes: "GET OVER IT!!!! You're clinging to every LAST DESPERATE HOPE and you need to stop and MOVE ON." Except i said more **** than just that
2007-02-13 15:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap some sense into her
2007-02-13 15:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by yauh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋