I have been best friends with a male for about 9 years now. He calls me 2 to 3 times a day and we can talk about any and everything. We both said that we can't imagine not being best friends, our friendship is more like a "brother sister" situation. I have been married for 4 years now, and I feel like I am not a close to my husband as I am to my "brother". I told my male bf that I had fallen in love with him, but he said that he never looked at me like that, but sometimes he tells me that he loves me and he don't know what he would do without me. He tells me that I am beautiful and he treats his many women like crap, yet he has never disrespected me or hurt me in any way. He is not stable because my husband made me choose between him and my bf, when I chose my husband, he got mad at me and he felt like I had put my husband before him. He said that we have been friends longer than I have known my husband. I feel like he depends on me too much and I need to stop it, what should i do?
2007-02-13 07:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by MovingOnWithMyLife..Your Loss! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Been there done that, a friend would never put you in the position to make you feel like you chose your husband over him. He obvisously had deeper feelings for you and is terrible jealous and hurt. He will come around and if not then it is probably for the best. You have a commitment to your Husband and his comfort level and a "friend" would understand that.
2007-02-13 07:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends want to see their friends happy. They do not put them on guiilt trips for spending time with a spouse. My best friend is a woman I have known for 10 years. If either of us gets married the other would support it 100%. If you are happy with your husband tell your friend he has to understand. If he does not, he's not the friend you think he is. Good luck
2007-02-13 07:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by cinsingl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i dunno
2007-02-13 07:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋