the love of my life broke up with me last week, she says that she doesnt love any more romantically, but i love her like an idot. should i send her some flowers for Valentines. Please advice and remeber i am heart broken right now but i miss her and want her to have this. should i or i shoulnt. In a month we are going to talk again and see what happens but i dont think she wants me back in her life. I am so messed up right now! Prefer women answer this questions thanks
2007-02-13 07:14:50 · 15 answers · asked by leomebaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't send her flowers. What if she's got a date for tomorrow night. You'll just look like an idiot. Just give it some time.
2007-02-13 07:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Ana D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - leave her alone. She's told you she's not feeling romantic towards you now so burn something that reminds you of her and set her free.
You go out and hang with your friends.
Things will get easier after a while and you'll find someone else who will be the love of your life. I know it doesn't seem so now but give yourself some time and you find out everything will be o.k.
Perhaps she'll come back to you. Perhaps not. You just can't force it.
Good luck, sweetie.
2007-02-13 15:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by txkathidy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send her the flowers or anything else. It will be a waste of your money, she won't appreciate it, and she will feel guilty as hell. If she doesn't love you - give her her space. She will either realize what a big mistake she is making, or she will not, but you have to move on.
2007-02-13 15:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, please don't send her anything. If you do it's just going to look so desperate! I know you love her but if she doesn't feel the same way then maybe it's not meant to be. If anything, maybe she needs some time apart to figure things out. But look on the bright side, she wants to talk in a month. She wants to see where things are in a month. She probably just needs time to clear her head.
Don't send her anything.
2007-02-13 15:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by silence_within_chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send the flowers...as a gesture of the holiday.. "not a take me back notion".. the card should read something like this" You still deserve these and more.. Enjoy!". It shows maturity not desparation...and it opens a line for a thank you instead of a restraining order.
2007-02-13 15:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by CHELAKIKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont send her anything. If she changes her mind she will come around quicker if you are giving her complete space. And if she doesn't come around than it wasn't meant to be and you will find in time find someone who wants you as much as you want them or loves you as much as you love them...I know how hard it is just be strong and lean on your close friends and family. Good Luck.
2007-02-13 15:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by dekota1997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you still love her. But, why send her flowers when she doesn't want to be with you anymore. She's probably expecting you to send flowers so please don't. Let her think about what she did to you.
2007-02-13 15:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send the flowers and a short message on the card...like 'thinking of you'...etc. BUT do NOT call her until your agreed upon 'month' of time.
She might surprise you by calling to thank you- don't answer, it will make her think twice about what she really wants.
good luck!
2007-02-13 15:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what's wrong if a guy answers? but, don't send the flowers. it will make you look desperate. you could send her a nice little note and say that you miss her and that you thought scince it was v. day, you thought it would be thoughtful.
2007-02-13 15:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't do that... if she needs space it is going to seem pushy.. and it as the old saying goes... if you love something set it free, if it returns to you it is yours if it doesn't then it was never meant to be.
2007-02-13 15:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋