Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

My husband doesnt actually have to call me foul names to make me feel bad about myself, but sometimes it can be the way he says things. He can make remarks like how hard he works and that i dont know what it feels like. He will ask me what i have done productive while he is at work. Mind you, I do pay most of the household expenses every month from my disability check. He has even went as far as talking about the occupational position of a friends' wife. This just makes feel as if i have no self worth. This is a man who doesnt have to lift a finger when he comes home from work. If anything he is spoiled. It does hurt when he says these things to me, and at times he can be the best husband in the world. But the least little thing can get me lashed by his harsh words. How do you think i should handle the situation?

2007-02-13 08:31:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my crush is online and he only really talks when i have something interesting to say umm i need like a question that he would love to discuss! any ideas?? he likes skating but weve talked about that way too much

2007-02-13 08:31:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that maybe this sounds a little pathetic asking for help online but truthfully my friends are no help. I haven't had a girlfriend since the summer and there have been a few girls that I have liked that havb turned me down. Now I've come to the absolute girl of my dreams and I don't want to screw it up. How am I supposed to get a girl? I'm no the most popular guy in school but I'm pretty well know. I'm captain of my football team and track squad. i was also on the wrestling team and I'm a shew in for the all around best student athlete in the school. I really like this girl so please tell me what to do. I love this girl! PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-02-13 08:31:39 · 4 answers · asked by trackstar 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you talk about if you are dating again after a divorce ? what do men like to talk about with a new woman? i want to be interesting to him

2007-02-13 08:31:39 · 2 answers · asked by dossin 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm actually getting married in a few weeks.. everything is set except for our entrance into the reception hall.. anyone have any ideas as to how to make a grand entrance..
an entrance no one will ever forget.. but obviously one that doesn't cost an arm and a leg..

thanx!

2007-02-13 08:31:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend recently discussed our sex life with his roommate and asked if he(the roommate) had ever heard anything. My boyfriend told me this thinking it would make me feel better knowing that his roommate can't hear us, but know I feel uncomfortable going over to his place and seeing his roommate knowing that he knows what he knows. Anyone have any advice that might help me?? Really any advice would help greatly!

2007-02-13 08:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

only met the guy 5 times and seein him 2mos, shall i buy him someone/card etc or not bother? please help with txt poem?

2007-02-13 08:29:43 · 5 answers · asked by stacy c 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly men, i want to know how many of you cheat on your wife? if you do, does she know? i want your honest answers. Would you like your wife to share you with other women. I have done this before with my hubby, and he still says i dont share him. Am i wrong for doing this?

2007-02-13 08:28:18 · 27 answers · asked by endless_eternity_forever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you like internet dating i mean i dont i think it is kindda weird you dont even know if that person is a perv or not im just asking to see how many ppl like it or not well thanks in advance!

2007-02-13 08:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by Lexi 2 in Singles & Dating

By recent I mean the break up was less than two weeks ago.

2007-02-13 08:27:44 · 6 answers · asked by CC 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 08:27:31 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 08:27:09 · 14 answers · asked by atvgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

or if they're more successful than you?
and how do u cope or deal with it without having to completely ignore him or her? is that what people mean by the joneses or the rat race?

2007-02-13 08:26:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

todays my moms b-day and its taking me a long time to think about what im going to say and i want it to b something special. Please help!?!

2007-02-13 08:26:37 · 4 answers · asked by little one 2 in Family

My Best Guy Friend...I Love him...he doesnt love me back

2007-02-13 08:26:18 · 3 answers · asked by TaylorBug 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I don't talk on the phone very much any more, he is a full time student and I am on the other side of the country for 5 more months. We agreed not to break up when I left, but it has been a month and we talk less and less because of our busy schedules and the time difference. He says he still likes me, but he just needs space. I asked him flat out if he wanted to break up (i do not want to) he still hasn't responded. He is coming out for spring break in 2 weeks, he just bought his plane ticket about a week ago. Our communications have been dwindaling for about 2 weeks now. I know that school is hard and time consuming, but since i don't get to talk to him much i don't know how he feels. Am I making something out of nothing? Or do you think he wants to break up?

2007-02-13 08:25:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would it bother if you was talkin to a girl and she had a thing called hyperhidrosis(excessively sweating).. sweaty hands,feet.... now i know if someone really loves you it doesnt matter but i want to know if it would really honestly bother you

2007-02-13 08:25:22 · 5 answers · asked by mzmzmz 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this group of friends at school. They're really nice and funny! One of my friends said that one of the guys likes me. So, I was on the computer, he added me and we talked. He said really sweet things to me. He said at school, we should talk.

At school ,we really tried to talk, but it was really hard. One day he left without saying good-bye, so i went to his locker and said good-bye to him. 2 days in a row. He seemed really happy!

On msn, one of my friends said that he hasn't talked much about me. Like he doesn't brag or anything. Nothing.

I'm just wondering.. he's shy around me. Is he just not talking about me because he's shy, or does he not like me anymore? If he's shy, whats the best way for him to come over it?

2007-02-13 08:25:02 · 12 answers · asked by Mayu 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been friends since 98 and now she's a stay home mom. Since she has money issues, she started to sell cosmetics. She started to pressure me to bring my friends to her party. I brought 2 friends and I helped her by buying some cosmetics (she didn't even gave me a discount). Then she talked smack about my friends cause they didn't return her call(they didn't want to feel pressure to host a party). Last month she invited me to another party to make purses. I didn't want to go cause I didn't have $$. I told her that I wasn't going to the party, she said that she had dropped alot of money on food to cater this party, half of her guests canceled at the last minute and then she hung up the phone on my face. It has been over two weeks & she hasn’t called me back. I called last Friday, and she was at the gym, and didn't return my call. I don't know what’s next.

2007-02-13 08:24:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have about 20 bucks and I wanna get my best friend a valentine's gift! I'm a female and he's a male. He doesn't love me the way I love him but I caught him getting me a rose at school (he doesn't know and I know cuz he wrote my name) and I wanna get him something. Something that shows I care about him as a friend yet more. What should I get? And the best store I could go to is WalMart

2007-02-13 08:24:23 · 6 answers · asked by brown eyed gurl 2 in Friends

i really like this guy that i think likes me back but im not sure.
my best friend likes him too and she doesnt know i like him because thats kinda against the rules of feminism. anyway..... i wanna do something sweet on valentines day but i dont know what to do. they sell candy grams at my school but i think that might be a little corny!
-help me this is a last resort cuz valentines day is tomrrow!!

2007-02-13 08:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have a friend, known for about 2 or 3 years, not counting, but since i have known her she has been in one bad relationship followed by many other, but always goes back to the first one. he treats her horrible, imagine it he has done it, get it? why does she stay, she says cuz she has no where to go and no money but in the past she has had money and somewhere to go. i feel bad cuz she calls me crying. now what?

2007-02-13 08:23:59 · 10 answers · asked by CATWOMAN 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 years old and have never had a boyfriend. A 16 year old whom I haven't known for very long asked me if I'd go to the movies with him this weekend and I told him I'd give him an answer tomorrow. He's nice.....but I don't think I know him well enough. And the fact that he's two years older than me makes me a little uncomfortable. How do I let him know I'm not interested without making him feel bad. I know he'll ask why. I'm not exactly experienced with this type of thing so...help?

2007-02-13 08:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 08:22:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Brothers Torment me and i wanna get my old life back before they moved back home!!! They both Drive and are asleep when i get up for school but one of them is a light sleeper and isn't home on the weekends so that leaves the hevie Sleep alone!!!!and i just want a lot of pranks i could PUll with out the trouble fro my parents!!! My Brothers are 17 and 19 (the 19 year old is the light sleeper)I NEED HELP!!! PLZ

2007-02-13 08:22:28 · 14 answers · asked by DUH ME 1 in Family

2007-02-13 08:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by Rachel D 1 in Friends

there is this girl I like and she likes me but she is holding back because she is recently out of a divorce and i;m out of long term relationship my self...so we are not rushing into anything ....just good friends for now
I want to send here a message for v-day where I dont confess love or ask her to be my valentine ...I dont want to be pushy but I do not want just sit back and do nothing
so here is what I had in mind

"not sure what to say
today is a fine day
hope I'm not over the line
but I'm glad you a friend of mine
have a splendid v-day ~hugs~"

would you add something else to it?

and dont slam me because I;m sending a txt message
I'm a busy person and I'm out of town constantly ....even this entire week....and ordering flowers or sending gift would be to over the top
besides we txt each other a lot so i think its not in bad taste

2007-02-13 08:21:57 · 11 answers · asked by mr.ask_a_lot 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to do something very special for my boyfriend for valentine's day but he's in a different county. I want to show him how much I love and miss him. Any ideas?

2007-02-13 08:21:30 · 8 answers · asked by Vivi 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months.When we are in public outside of school(high school) + when we are alone, he always makes me his 1st priority. But when we're at school, he treats me not like his gf, but his friend. Sometimes he puts his arms around me + occasionally kisses me. But he usually pays more attention to his friends at school. He doesn't see his friends outside of school as much as he sees me. He always says that he loves me, but why can't he show it when we're at school? I'm his 1st gf so maybe he's not used to PDA + he said he's trying to change but I think if he really loved me, wouldn't he not care who saw him with me? I'm so confused. I really want to be with him and I've been patient w/ him trying to change, but recently I've become upset about this. We almost broke up a few weeks ago b/c he thinks I deserve someone better than him. I just want him to be comfortable. What are some of your opinions about this? Please help!!!

2007-02-13 08:21:15 · 15 answers · asked by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I know a girl, we r kind of new freinds, and weve been at this stage for about 5 months. she talks to me sometimes and will simle at me in the hall. She never initates the convo though. I have asked her out a couple of times and she has been busy with ligit reasons. I think i might just be wasting her time. Is she being genuine and im over-reacting; or is she trying to let me off nicely?
And what should i do?

2007-02-13 08:21:12 · 7 answers · asked by ??? 4 in Singles & Dating