Honestly men, i want to know how many of you cheat on your wife? if you do, does she know? i want your honest answers. Would you like your wife to share you with other women. I have done this before with my hubby, and he still says i dont share him. Am i wrong for doing this?
2007-02-13 08:28:18 · 27 answers · asked by endless_eternity_forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you've been naughty, and need Master Richards firm hand!!!
For your info...."REAL MEN" don't cheat.....we already have what we need.
I'd love to be "shared", but would also love to have a woman who would want to "be shared" also. But it isn't a neccessity in either situation. Makes a great fantasy though.
2007-02-13 08:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well its all these guys that cheat that are still married . I was married twice and never cheated they did and no i didn't wont to share my wife that's why i divorced them . Even in the animal world there is only one king. Men just don't have that share thing in them man was made to dominate or be the leader not share that's why where at the top of the food Chane
Bring a guy home and see what he does there's allot in here that I'm sure would help you out
2007-02-13 08:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly here goes, if something in your married life is lacking sure maybe it could be found during being shared but if what's lacking isn't sexual then what is it that you call cheating? I consider cheating as a sexual encounter with another person other than your spouse. So even if you allow this act or are promoting this act then his dilemma could be of a spiritual or even worse metaphysical nature that could cause emotional problems a doctor of mental health won't be able to fix. That is why before people marry they should know, understand, love to perform and take a greedy insatiable active part in their spouses total and full sexual commitments to pleasure. If you do not understand then best sit and talk for about three days with your spouse ask them about their fantasies and work them into your plan, talk to them about the areas where you never want to try and find out if those things are going to give him cause to seek such perversion elsewhere. Love your lover give them all you have to satisfy them and in the meantime enjoy all that they give you back as a way of thanking you for being awesome and again proving that they made the right choice when they asked you to marry them.
2007-02-13 08:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so why dont you both wear signs around your neck, stating that you are both immoral tards.
You know, I cant seem to grasp what it is with you and those like you. No, not all of us cheat. Further, what makes people such as yourself unashamed to step out into the daylight? Is it that no one bothers to call your bad names or treat you as you act? Do you have no moral code other then what you like and so forth? Is that how you determine right from wrong, what you like or agree with or what lets you act as you want? Please tell us that you dont have kids. Please.
One of the reasons I am so harsh on here and in person is simply because I often feel that with the way things are, I might actually be the only person who ever says that someone is wrong or doing wrongly. Think thats arrogant? Why? Look at the answers people post. Makes you wonder if many actually have any moral compass other then what they are comfortable with or in doing.
2007-02-13 09:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With men cheating 60% of the time and women 40%, I don't think it's for the reasons people assume (just sex or for the thrills, etc).
In fact, I assume that, contrary to social opinion, monogamy isn't normal for all people. Unfortunately, society isn't accomodating to those who want to be both honest and are not naturally monogamous. Open relationships are seriously frowned upon.
Most guys or girls don't cheat to get sex. It happens, but not to most people, IMO. Most fall into a relationship unexpectedly and only have two options they see open to them. Leave the new relationship, which is brutally difficult, or cheat. Society has shown them only those two options.
I am polyamorous. I am very open about my feelings and non-monogamous nature. I always make certain everyone involved is aware and OK before I enter into a relationship (their significant other, if they have one, and my wife). Though sex is a component of these romantic relationships, it's no different than anyone with a girlfriend or wife. They are long term and very loving relationships.
For those who are not monogamous, but not interested in long-term romantic relationships (i.e. sex is the more important aspect) and want to be open and honest with their partner, there is swinging. I"ve never experienced it, so cannot talk about it much.
I've always wondered why people find cheating (breaking the rules) more acceptable than open and honest non-monogamy.
2007-02-13 08:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've had opportunities to cheat on my wife. Never took them. She trusts me and I trust her, so what she thinks about me is the same as what she knows: I have been faithful and plan to stay that way.
As to whether or not I would like my wife to share me? My animal instinct says "yes" but my heart says "no." To many men, that sounds like a good idea, but the complications that this decision could cause are really not worth it for me.
I would not willingly share my wife, I suspect she feels the same about me.
However, that is me and my life. You have to decide for yourself if you were wrong for doing what you did. Ask yourself this: does he share you?
2007-02-13 08:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your married it should only be between 2 people ( you and your husband) when you allow another person to enter the relationship there is a chance that things can get out of hand. me personally i have never cheated on my wife, and never will.. Sex is Sex and if i feel the need to get off that bad i talk to my wife or at worst pray about it. you 2 should talk about your desires, and what it is you want from the relationship. Good luck And God Bless
2007-02-13 08:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Big Will 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont cheat on my wife. Never have. 5 years coming up in Aug. What you do for your husband, on the other hand, is nobody else's business. You have to figure that one out with him. You may get an answer that he doesnt like. We (men) are not all the same, or even close.
2007-02-13 08:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by BigU 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 08:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by golden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated on my wife. And no I would not want my wife to share me with other women. And he is wrong to ask you to be involved in that type of behavior and you are wrong to go long with it.
2007-02-13 08:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Cordon S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋