i really like this guy that i think likes me back but im not sure.
my best friend likes him too and she doesnt know i like him because thats kinda against the rules of feminism. anyway..... i wanna do something sweet on valentines day but i dont know what to do. they sell candy grams at my school but i think that might be a little corny!
-help me this is a last resort cuz valentines day is tomrrow!!
2007-02-13 08:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you need to consider how much you value your friendship before doing anything. Ask her how much she likes him, and if she would mind if you like him too. You can't help who you like, but you DO control how you handle it. She might not really care if you like him. If so, you have her blessing so go for it. Send him a candy gram Valentines day is corny in itself so it doesn't really matter if the action is corny. If you friend really likes him and you want to stay friends, then let it be, at least until she moves on to someone else. Then he's fair game, especially if they have never dated.
2007-02-13 08:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by ~Melanie~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do nothing!!! You know she likes him, and she doesn't know you like him, so you get her something or send something to hook the two of them up or you tell her point blank that if she don't want him you are going to take him...that is if he'll have you. You are breaking the BEST FRIEND GOLDEN RULE if you try to seduce this dude. You have to leave him alone unless you want to tell her that you have a crush on him. Even then he is off limits.
2007-02-13 08:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by outspoken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU RETARD!!!! There are NO rules of feminism! If your friend is gonna screw with you and leave you because you like the same guy she does...screw her!!!! Well you can do what I did....I made my bff (who is male) a heart made from a dollar! Its so cool! Here's the link... http://members.cox.net/crandall11/money/valentine/
2007-02-13 08:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing a guy is temporary, Losing a best friend is forever.
Don't do it.
2007-02-13 08:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by sklinckyy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him out on valentines day
2007-02-13 08:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel on the day
2007-02-13 08:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Walk away...walk away.
Don't do your friend like that.
2007-02-13 08:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋