2007-02-13 08:22:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, actually there are a few of us around. A few of us still believe in morals as GOD defined them, doing the right thing even when everyone laughs or calls us nuts. Some of us dont fall for the politically correct crap or follow the trends, fads or buy into the current crop of nonsense.
You know, I want to say this too. So many of you who cant seem to find someone who wont cheat and who is decent, honest, honorable and so forth, should think about this. Maybe you dont find such people because you arent the kind who would attract them or offer them anything of real value. You also might want to see if you can recognize and appreciate a good person when you do find them. Many of you who want a good person will then say you dont want someone who is judgmental or a bit harsh or who is too moralistic. Well, it isnt that gentle or easy going stuff that makes a good person say no to cheating for example, when the wife has been saying no for four months. It is the hard case moralist who knows what is right and does it even when they would rather not, or when they have no reason other then their own character or the thoughts of eternity to bolster them. So many of you people who claim you cant find a good person, simply dont like the traits that make the other person good or honorable, so you pass them by. You really cant expect to get the bad boy/bad girl and then make him/her a saint.
2007-02-13 08:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been unfaithful. That is one thing I take pride in being able to say. Even in HS, when I was dating, I would always be honest. If I no longer wanted to be with someone, and was interested in someone else, I was honest about it.
I am a one woman man. Well, right now, I am a no woman man, as I am single. But, as bad as my marriage was, I was never unfaithful. Even though many of my friends and family said, had I been, I would have been justified. I just don't do that.
I will continue to be this way. It is about respect. Respect for the other person, and respect for yourself. During my time in the military, I was single the whole time. I knew travelling the world, and seeing different places would be tempting. So, I went into, and came out, of the military single. That way, there were no regrets or feelings of guilt.
So, there are a few of us out here who do not, have not, and will not ever cheat.
2007-02-13 17:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband never cheated ,but I did when we first got married that almost lead to divorce. Husband saw me with other guy almost a year after affair was over after going it over all in his head he told me that I had the affair and almost was incompletely correct on the time we had sex with O.M. I had no choice but to come clean well things got real lean for aver a year, He finally let the anger go and told me to write everything out details and everything after that he read it and then burn it in front of me, he also told me he never had an affair ever and the next one I had would be the last in our marrage! He give me his trust now and faith, but it's not blind.
I did something stupid and ask if we could swing for a year and now well we might be getting a divorce!
BUT LET ME SAY THIS STRAIGHT MEN CAN BE TRUSTED AS LONG AS YOU COMMUNICATE WITH THEM AND ARE HONEST!
2007-02-13 16:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by T S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are. I have a good male friends that is married. It is not in his DNA to be unfaithful. There are plenty of men out there that would not stray.
I tell you what though: his wife always says she will give him all the incentive he needs to come home to her. She makes sure her man stays happy at home. Whatever he wants he gets with a smile. These are her words.
This is the secret that most women refuse to understand.
2007-02-13 17:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father has never cheated on my mother. Most men have not cheated on their wives, it is only the scum of the earth that do and these sorts of men are not worth having.
2007-02-13 16:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by mellouckili 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband has never pursued another woman. I told him he could meet another woman if he wished to. He said he did not want to that it was wrong.
Many men do not cheat..also many women do not cheat. Having fantasies about other people outside your marriage is normal.
I want to experience other men, yet I know I have to get a divorce to do so. Marriage is tough. Right for some people and wrong for others...good luck
2007-02-13 16:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tabor 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd like to think there are and it being a high percentage of faithful husband/partners. I see married people everyday and even though they say "no one knows what goes on behind closed doors" I just get the feeling these guys are as true to their wife as she is to her husband.
2007-02-13 16:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by sassywv 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never have cheated on my wife of 16 years or any of my previous girlfriends (even when I could stand them no longer and knew that a breakup was inevitable).
I have no respect for those who cheat.
2007-02-13 16:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by Irish Eyes 4 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated.
2007-02-13 16:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I married a virgin who had/has no desire to ever be with anyone other than me. And I do know where he is almost all of the time, so I'm not fooling myself.
2007-02-13 16:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋