I have this group of friends at school. They're really nice and funny! One of my friends said that one of the guys likes me. So, I was on the computer, he added me and we talked. He said really sweet things to me. He said at school, we should talk.
At school ,we really tried to talk, but it was really hard. One day he left without saying good-bye, so i went to his locker and said good-bye to him. 2 days in a row. He seemed really happy!
On msn, one of my friends said that he hasn't talked much about me. Like he doesn't brag or anything. Nothing.
I'm just wondering.. he's shy around me. Is he just not talking about me because he's shy, or does he not like me anymore? If he's shy, whats the best way for him to come over it?
2007-02-13 08:25:02 · 12 answers · asked by Mayu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds, to me, that he may like you. It's easier to chat online than it is to talk face to face. Maybe you just have a hard time thinking of something to say. Talk about television shows, movies, common classes/assignments, something you heard in the news or sports. Anything that'll open up a dialogue. Once you reach a comfort level face to face, the conversation will just flow from there and then eventually you'll be able to have hour long conversations about paper clips or hair dye or forks, whatever.
If he doesn't talk about you to friends, then he's probably just a decent guy that doesn't think your business is any of their business. That's a good thing because if he were a jerk, he'd be telling his buddies ALL your business and making up stuff of his own.
2007-02-13 08:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it could be either one of your questions. Maybe he was only trying to be a good friend. You really need to find out before you do anything else, because you don't want to embarress yourself. Alot of guys find it easier to talk to girls about things so they become really close friends and nothing more. It also sounds like he might have acrush and don't know how to take the next step. He also could be afraid of getting hurt ( maybe like a past experience he has had) Get the real scoop from other friends before you do anything. All else fails wait for him to approach you and then decide on what to do. Good luck!!!!
2007-02-13 08:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's definitely shyness. He probably wants to see you and talk to you, but he may be bad at it. You said he seems happy when you talk to him. He most likely wants to talk to you, but is afraid of messing up or making a fool out of himself. Just try to be a little more initiative with him, and he should come out of his shell in no time.
2007-02-13 08:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Stick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is really shy, you will have to break the ice with him. Why not just trying to talk to him, and be witty and nice. Hang out, go for a walk, ask him things like what are his favorite hobbies.
2007-02-13 08:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Janine 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hes probably being shy. Guys will do that to ya. Just ask him wats up, but dont put him on the spot. I think he likes you. Dont loose hope!!
2007-02-13 08:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-20 23:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by Fausto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him a little time it seem that he is a little bit shy.Sometimes it is easy to talk to people on the computer than in person.Just try to talk to him more so he will come out of his shell.
2007-02-13 08:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Meka_Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared about you, he wouldn't let his shyness get in the way. He probably just doesn't like you in that way.
2007-02-13 08:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by Chloe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. I'm shy too and it is awful!
2007-02-13 08:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by sklinckyy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like hes shy... just give him time... im sure soon enough he'll be more comfortable around you.
2007-02-13 08:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by Velvet_heart 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋