We have 4 kids (12 yo girl & 5 yo triplets;1 boy) I do 100% of child care, ie drive them to school, help with homework, volunteer at school, drive to extracurricular activities, clothe them etc; groceries, cook meals, laundry, clean 6000 sq.ft home (5 bathrooms), shovel snow, cut grass, pay bills ETC... he was upset last weekend when a few things were "not in their right place" in the pantry and he had to straighten it up. He said this place would be a dump if it wasn't for him keeping things organized. Does he really think that he is doing all the work and that I am not doing anything. Needless to say, I blew up, describing EVERYTHING I do in a day - he said I was over reacting and NEVER apologized. Tomorrow is Valentines day and I can't really say I feel anything for him right now except resentment. Am I wrong for feeling like this, or should I just suck it up and be happy?
2007-02-13
07:51:04
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Pandora
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Marriage & Divorce