i been with this guy for 6 monthes and some how i fell in love wit him and he dosnt make me happy but some reason i cant let go i need help i dont want to be stuck wit him forever he man handles me he cheated but i cant let go some plzz give me some advise to take my mind off of him
2007-02-13 07:56:05 · 11 answers · asked by kase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to realize that although you love him, he is NOT the right guy for you and never will be. There are so many other guys out there that will respect you and treat you like a princess. Trust me, I have dated guys on both ends of the spectrum and I know what I'm saying.
It may be tough to leave him -- but you need to be strong. Just take some time to worry about YOU for a change. Whether it be school or work, hanging with your friends or working out -- just worry about you for awhile. The right guy will come along. :)
Good luck!
2007-02-13 08:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sooo getting someone else pregnant is not enough for you to give up on this loser after a 6months relationship/? DO you like torturing yourself? HE isnt doing anything to you that you arent doing to yourself. Snap out of it. He doesnt love or respect you. Dump his assss before youpay the ultimate price. Ya know like he may man handle you tooo hard next time or he may uh,.....give your asss an STD you cant get rid of. GET A GRIP!!!
2007-02-13 08:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the bad spelling and grammar, you're too young to be worrying about things like that. Another guy will come around sooner or later. Give it time, it's just infatuation. You'll get over it.
2007-02-13 08:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up on him and move on,the quicker you move on and get on with the rest of your life the easier it will be to forget him.go out and have fun for a while.You'll know when you have met "the one" untl then just enjoy being single,the freedom you'll have and more time to hang out with friends,family and also more time for yourself to pamper yourself and know your worth having a better boyfriend and dont settle for less,if he's that bad now he will never get better.
2007-02-13 08:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're putting up with this crap you can't think very much of yourself. Don't you think you deserve better than a cheating abuser? Get some counselling sweetie.
2007-02-13 08:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, it doesn't sound like he's your boyfriend if he's sleeping with another girl and she's pregnant. You not only can let go, you must.
2007-02-13 08:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is that bad he obviousuly dose not love you back, continusly remind yourself of this and you'll stop thinking of him easy. If you still think about him try to scope out other guys and they will take your mind off him.
2007-02-13 08:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by ??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him, u'll get over him, even though it may take some time. I've been through the same predicament, except that my boyfriend didn't act like that, but i really liked him.
2007-02-13 08:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by sweetchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is find someone else and get over him because if he really cared about you he would've never gotten someone else pregnant from jump start get over it you don't need no one like that
2007-02-13 08:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Toya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loom around for other guys..in the meantime think about how you gonna breakup with your boyfriend it probably wont matter to him since he cheated but i was in the same problem trust me on this one
2007-02-13 08:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by xxemo rangerxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋