I recently found out from the guy and his best friend that she was in a threesome withthem. Should I tell her he blabbed?
2007-02-13 07:52:59 · 24 answers · asked by gerber baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ALL three people involved are engaged or married.
2007-02-13 12:04:46 · update #1
I think she should be made aware of his babbling. The issue is lack of discretion on his part and not her threesome per se. You need to let her know that you are not judging her. Her sex life is no one's business. If you say "hey you had a threesome", she may freak. But if you say "This guy is saying things about you," she will listen to you.
2007-02-13 07:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Piedras 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tread cautiously here. They may be lying, and she might get very upset at you for believing them. Or she may become too embarrassed to be around you if she knows that you know. It all depends on what kind of person she is. If you think she might react badly to you knowing, it's best to just keep quiet about it.
2007-02-13 07:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by gab500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should, if you guys are friends then she shouldn't be offended. there are things that i have done that i wouldn't dare tell my best friend, but if she ever asks i won't lie about any situation either. so maybe she is the same way. you'll tell her you know and she will tell you whether it actually happend or not.
2007-02-13 07:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by trey0540 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to eliminate her husband--- the subsequent aspect he will want is a threesome with her and yet another guy and him, the line is countless---at the same time as it is composed of pleasant a sexual deviant.
2016-12-04 03:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends if you two are close. With my close friends i subscribe to the theory of telling them anything I would want them to tell me if our situations were reversed. It causes tension to have secrets between close friends.
2007-02-13 08:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Keri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she deserves to be told if they are telling multiple people. IF they only told you then don't get in the middle of it. IF they are telling multiple people, make sure you tell her that you don't see her any differently and you don't want her to be different around you. first.
2007-02-13 07:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by gorg515 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r real friends sure she won't mind if u told her that u found out about what she did. if u aren't reall friends then i say no don't tell her that u know.
2007-02-13 07:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her, what she does is none of your business, but if there are people trying to hurt her, you will definitely be there to protect her.
2007-02-13 07:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it may embarrass her but at least she may be able to do some damage control.
2007-02-13 07:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by laneydoll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're spreading the news, it would be good for her to know that. If she's your friend... tell her.
2007-02-13 07:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by selena n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋