or a bf... im not beautiful or ugly....just average. with regards to both outer appearances and inner personality.
am i doing something wrong??? i am i giving off a bad vibe i am unaware of??
2007-02-13 07:55:48 · 25 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with you. Do you even WANT to date? If so, ask someone!
2007-02-13 07:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down! It is perfectly normal...it may not seem like it, but it is. Actually, not having a bf before 22 gives you a chance to concentrate on other great things; your friends, career, family, education, etc. Are you desperate? Do you look desperate? Don't concentrate on a bf right now...forget about guys and just make as many friends as you can. Join clubs, gain hobbies, and you'll meet a cutie soon enough. Things will fall into place...it'll just take time. Good luck!
2007-02-13 15:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked anyone out?
I would hazard a guess that you are shy?
It's not your looks, it's where you socialise , what you do and if you mix enough. Get out more, take up hobbies, when you feel more comfortable in your own skin you will give off more signals to people you like to approach you for a date, when you gain more confidence in yourself you can ask someone yourself.
Best of luck, don't pressurise yourself, there's no time clock on these things.
2007-02-13 16:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"just average. with regards to both outer appearances and inner personality."
I don't know you, but is sounds like maybe you aren't comfortable with yourself. don't worry. 22 is way young. just enjoy life and friends. a relationship will find you.
2007-02-13 15:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by YE_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, im 23 and I have had trouble finding dates and relationships, im considered to be a good looking guy with a nice body. I just dont really persue the relationship so it never leads to anywhere.
Anyway, if you really want a relationship your going to have to take things into your own hands and ask guys out.
2007-02-13 15:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. I never had a date until I was 23. I'm average looking but in my case was very shy. When it's right, you'll find a guy to go out with.
2007-02-13 15:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by aj1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the number of "I am 13 and pregnant" or "I am 15 and my boyfriend cheated on me" type questions - I'd say you are the few normal ones out there. Take your time - if you are shy - just get out there - take a class, go to the park, walk your dog - you'll eventually meet someone. If that doesn't work - try speed dating. ;)
2007-02-13 16:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Skeezix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You just need to be pateint and put yourself out there. If you just go to work and back no one is going to see you. Go to a party or clubbing with some friends and don't be anti-social, guys likes girl who are confident ad fun loving. If you see a guy you like don't wait for him to make the first move to flirt alittle, get his attention.
2007-02-13 16:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by lalaland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might jsut be that guys see u as just a freind. maybe you should try spicing up you wardrobe. try somthing new. im a guy. and trust me it is the greatest thing when a girl makes a pass at you because most of us are pu ssys. so try some new things. what can it hurt? life is too short anyway
2007-02-13 16:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by frenchie_forshizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww..you aren't doing anything wrong, you've just got to put yourself out there, you know...go out with girlfriends, talk to ppl, be outgoing.....The way to get a date or a boyfriend is to BELIEVE you can have one, and you WILL, you see your thoughts and your actions become reality!!!
Good Luck!
2007-02-13 16:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You probably are just too shy. You just need to get out there! If you want something you are capable of getting it.
2007-02-13 15:59:49 · answer #11 · answered by Jessica La La Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋