Don't be stupid........
2007-02-13 07:56:24
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answer #1
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answered by troble # one? 7
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I think you are asking how to get pregnant without him knowing...let me start by saying, there is nothing that can capture your heart the way your babies will. That said, is it fair to your child to bring him/her into a world where he may not be wanted by his/her father? or to trick some man into fathering a child that he may not be ready for? Having a child is a huge, life changing, relationship altering experience. It is not a decision you should make without your significant others knowledge. It may not only ruin your relationship with this man but also set you and your child up for some very difficult struggles.
I have 3 children, 2 from my current marriage and 1 from a previous relationship. While my pregnancy was not planned, I certainly didn't try to trick him into getting me pregnant. It was very difficult being a single mom. I have to tell you, being a mom is a 24/7 never ending job. Until you and your mate are ready to take on this responsibility TOGETHER, you shouldn't get pregnant. It's not fair to do this to him or an innocent child.
2007-02-13 16:07:02
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answered by Ducky 1
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How old are you? Why would you even want to go there? If you want to do it alone that is your choice but to be sneaky and use another person is just wrong. Is it to trap him? I think instead of answers you really need to sit down and think about your question and all the outcomes that will come with it. If you are married and he does not want kids and you do that is another issue and you should seek counseling. My personal opinion notice I said personal is that if your thinking of trapping someone into having a baby with you, then you yourself should not be having one at this time... Think careful before you act this out because then you just bring in a third party that will get hurt most of all in the end.
2007-02-13 16:02:11
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answered by Genta 2
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Is there a reason why you would want to do this?
Given the fact that you asked this question I am only left to believe that you are young and immature. Not to be harsh but be serious, why would you want to ruin your life by getting knocked up by some man that you can't even be honest with.
Please take a step back and think with your head and realize what your asking people.
2007-02-13 16:04:48
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answered by sweetladie125 2
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Easy to do that - but a very foolish idea. Getting pregnant means a minimum of 18 yrs of responsibility after the child is born. Not to mention the dad would have a say in the childs life legally. If you don't want him to know about it why would you choose him to be a father to your child??
2007-02-13 16:01:54
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answered by lunasage 6
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um...what???
if you're saying what i think you're saying, you should NEVER trick someone into getting you pregnant. not only is it deceitful in the worst way, but you risk putting yourself and the baby in danger. and you also run the risk of raising the baby alone or the baby not having the opportunity to know his/her father...or if the father does stay, it will lead to resentment in the long run. if you want a baby and he doesn't, then find someone who does want a child to be with. there are too many children in this world born into situations like this, and it's ultimately the child who suffers. please be responsible.
2007-02-13 16:03:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Why , is there a good reason, whatever you are thinking of doing , My friend did the samething , and she cries , and she says she wish that she never did what she did.
2007-02-13 15:57:56
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answer #7
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answered by kitty 6
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first even though u a girl u dont got the rite 2 get nobody knocked up.
2007-02-13 15:57:46
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answer #8
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answered by playatm25 2
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you really shouldn't trick people in to getting you pregnant.
Its unfair if you know they do not want to conceive.
Even if it is too re-kindle a relationship, its no way to bring a child into the world.
Trickery is a nasty slope.
2007-02-13 15:58:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah, this falls into the category of "bad idea". Tell him as soon as you know.
2007-02-13 15:57:01
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answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5
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i can't imagine any good reason why you would want to. if you want him to be a father then the very least you should do is make him aware of it.
2007-02-13 15:57:43
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answered by jbslass 6
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