I dont mind my boyfriend watching tv, but that's all he does now, and he's always on the pc, and when I try to talk to him, he says , ''Sorry , I was watching tv , what did you say, and we never go out anymore, We used to go out and shoot pool and hang out with our friend's , I feel he just use me for my pc , and my cable tv, how can I tell him with out being rude , I just want to talk once in a while..
2007-02-13 07:55:59 · 5 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All we ever do is stay in and watch tv, I'm tired of it.
2007-02-13 07:59:25 · update #1
He is just missing a beer on his hands and he will start bringing his friends too soon.
Get his as$ up from the couch and go out again. When he shows up next time, just be ready to go, he knocks, you open the door, grab his hand, and go out, don’t even let him get into the house.
If he starts complaining, you kiss him to shut him up, and just keep on walking. Go somewhere, the mall, the beach, for a walk on the park, drive around, bike, swimming, whatever you can do in your town. Let him feel what it is to be with you having fun.
No matter how mad he becomes, just ignore it, give it a chance. It should work out just fine. After that, go back to your place, and make out, don’t let him turn on the TV, hide the remote, unplug it, and same with the PC. Make him focus his attention on you.
When you are done, tell him that next time you want him to take you somewhere different, maybe suggest a place, or leave to his imagination. When the time comes, he should come to your house just to pick you up. If you left it to his decision, wherever he takes you, accept it and be happy even if you don’t like the place. You can later suggest different places if you want to.
If this doesn’t work, then you have to sit down with him, and stay calm as you ask him to go out more often. Unless he is a moron, he should take some action here. Otherwise, your relation will not work out. Being a couple is mutual happiness. And the key to stay happy is communication.
Good luck, and hope you guys gave fun.
2007-02-13 08:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dan D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive been suggesting love coupons to couples the last few days to level the playing field of special interests in relationships.
I see it may very well apply here. Give each other 6 open ended coupons a month for the redeemer to get anything their hearts desires of the other person. at any place, any time without a question asked. Actually works pretty good too.
Otherwise that heart felt talk man to woman is at hand before it escalates into both of you having separate bedrooms.
2007-02-13 08:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn off the TV and tell him that he needs to start doing stuff with you or it's not going to last... and if that doesn't do it, just start going out without him and let him sit there alone with his TV... he'll eventually miss you being there, but if you're not patient enough to wait for that, just break up with him.. if he's not trying to make the r-ship work, then why should you?
2007-02-13 08:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out more places without televisions and stuff
like out to dinner =]
once he remember how much fun you are together im guessing he'll stop =]
if he doesn't tell him exactly what you said in your question.
but nicely
good luck hun =]
2007-02-13 08:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by Maddy G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him?
He's obviously not interested in you.
2007-02-13 08:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋