Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

my now ex is i admit not a very nice person and we split the saturday just gone.. feeling a bit in the dumps...

any NICE suggestions on cheering myself up!

2007-02-13 08:58:32 · 15 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Singles & Dating

This is terrible I know, but I've had a crush on him for several years now. What should I do? I can't stand it anymore.

2007-02-13 08:58:23 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-13 08:58:22 · 1 answers · asked by this screaming inside my head 6 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone been in a relationship where someone lost their trust over a 2 year period many times and then changed to a trustworthy person. Now it seems even though I can trust them part of me is still unsure and I can't move forward in the relationship becuase of the long time past?

2007-02-13 08:57:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok u girls till me have u ever frenched kissed a girl before? what was it like as in what did it taste like? did u like it ? feel free to till it in a story like the mood of it , where it happend at etc.

Iam 18 and a girl .

2007-02-13 08:56:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are 13. I'm Jess and he is Ryan. He likes drawing, making model planes, and is a straight A student. He is very shy, yet very loving. I am a dance fanatic, sing, and do plays. Him & I have been "together" for 7 years. In 1st grade his words were: "will you be my giwl fwend?" Ever since then - we have been together. This friday is our 1st date and i asked (which to me is fine) Dinner and a Movie. I want to kiss him because we never have. I am ready and I know he is too he's just to nervous to make a move so I thought I would. I'm really scared and I always chicken out on big things like this. What do I do? My parents are going to the movie (but going in a different theatre) and going to dinner (but not sitting close to us) and driving us home. I want to hold his hand and kiss him but I don't know when the time is right or how to approach. I am SOOOO nervous. Help!!!!

2007-02-13 08:56:15 · 22 answers · asked by Jess <3 1 in Singles & Dating

what characteristics do you despite on people?

2007-02-13 08:56:07 · 17 answers · asked by CALI GIRL 3 in Friends

Why is it so hard for me to open up my heart to another guy? The last time I opened up my heart to a guy he tore it apart. We were together from middle school and then when we were 16 I told him that I loved him and then he left me and I was devasted. Now at the age of 18 I can't still open up my heart to another guy. Does it usually take this long to get over the hurt?

2007-02-13 08:56:04 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

He gave me flowers instead of roses. I know he gave them to me w/love, but I love ROSES (Only).

2007-02-13 08:56:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short: My ex & I had a rocky relationship from the beginning. We fueded about an unplanned pregancy for months. He "claimed" he had gotten married overseas when he left lat summer for 2 months. He told me in an odd way two weeks before he left. We had came over so we could spend some "time" together & he told me he was getting married. It didnt seem believable, but I kicked him out of my house.He came back, we argued more about it & he said that he was married now. I was heartbroken for about 6 months, but I picked up the pieces and got myself together. I didnt work before & I drank a lot. I quit drinking & smoking cigs,I have a great job, I changed my attitude, and I changed my hairstyle. My ex has been flirting, being playful, & starring at me everytime I see him now. His co-workers & friends told me that he really wasnt married & that he told me that to hurt me & he wants me back but doesnt know how to talk to me about it. What should I do?

2007-02-13 08:55:57 · 16 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you remembered that boyfriend question I had asked earlier then this is a check up. Our relationship blew. About 3 weeks after we got together we had a eally big fight and didnt talk to each othef for like 2 weels. Last night he apologized to me and we made back up but today a friend is telling me that he talks really bad about me behind my back and that he is cheating on me. This is not the first time this has been told to me but I really like him.
God I am just so confused. Could someone PLEASE help me????

2007-02-13 08:55:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

told me that it hurt when she sat down .

2007-02-13 08:55:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should i do?

2007-02-13 08:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering because guys always say they think about sex 24/7 no matter what age.

2007-02-13 08:54:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever had their ceremony in a graveyard? That's my dream wedding. What's your dream wedding?

2007-02-13 08:54:49 · 12 answers · asked by Pirate_Wench 5 in Weddings

me i love tongan mix with chinese

2007-02-13 08:54:38 · 1 answers · asked by talofa lava 2 in Singles & Dating

so why does my fathers' Indian family refuse to accept us as part of their family even when we do more for them than we do for any other members of our family? They treat my mother worse than a dog and walk out of the room when she comes in. They never call her by her name and are just so rude. Is this normal because it's normal for us. I don't speak any of the Indian laguages although I understand more than I admit to. I know they just don't like us but we have done nothing wrong except not be Indian. Why does this happen in this day and age? Is this normal for Indian? I hate visiting Indian relatives, I'd rather visit Baghdad!

2007-02-13 08:53:57 · 11 answers · asked by JJ88 4 in Family

I've been with my girl for a lil over a year. I have told her that i love her because I do, shes the first girl i've ever told I love. She plans on goin to a different country for college, but it wont be set in stone for a lil over a year from now. We have talked about it and we have told ourselves to wait to see what this year brings us. But to continue this for a year then to have her take off to another country will suck, and to break up and her not even get into the school would also suck. She knows I love her eventhough she has told me she doesnt believe in love. But the fact that she told me we should just see were this next years takes us before we plan anything eventhough that leaving me is a possibility...I dont know how to take what she wants from me or "us". I dont see how u can tell someone you dont believe in love but when you know that the other person does love you and then put them in this situation how can i take it?

2007-02-13 08:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here is what happend:

A friend of mine named Jordan was put into a coma and in the hospital right now. I don't know the current news if he is alright right now. How can I cope with this? Can someone help me?

2007-02-13 08:53:03 · 3 answers · asked by Final Form Fan 3 in Friends

Generally I kiss with my eyes closed, but every once in a while I like to open them, just to see how my boyfriend is reacting. I don't sit there and stare at him, I just like to watch him and observe the way he goes about his business. Is that overly weird? I know every once in a while I catch him doing the same thing, so I don't think he minds. But I just wanted to get everyone else's opinions.

2007-02-13 08:52:57 · 7 answers · asked by vipresschick06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here it is, every day I come home from working 18 grueling hours so my lazy fat wife can stay home with our kids, and ever day I go straight to the bedroom to smell her panties to see if she has been cheating on me. I have found a few times that there was an odd odor that does not smell like her ususal smell. So I confronted her about it, and we got in to a massive aurgument, now I have kicked out onto the couch, because I am afraid I might get a desease from her lover. I cannot leave work early to see if she is cheating, is beacuse I have to pay all the bills because my whale of a wife thinks it's more important to spend time with our very dim witterd sun instead of getting a job and putting him in a hame,and the only people in town I know are her family so I cannot ask them to spy on her. We moved from the city to her home hick town for our retard son. what should I do?

2007-02-13 08:52:11 · 18 answers · asked by K S 2 in Singles & Dating

5'6 147, works for the government, is a musician, Very Shy, very nice, honest, responsible, polite, sensitive, caring, sometimes charming. understanding, goal oriented, Cute as hell =) (not macho) but lacking bad boy qualities. *i did enough damage to my body as a teenager* I'm 24 and i have no clue what a woman wants. all i know as the days pass i'm becoming more lonely. I live alone in a nice apartment, and i have very few friends. since i'm a kinda small guy i don't even know if any girl would be intrested in me. Just got out of a 4 year relationship too.

2007-02-13 08:52:06 · 12 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 08:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this boy...ok like i started talking to him last week and um after i met him everytime he walks past me at school he goes..you suck, your stupid,retartard,omg your weird..i have asked some of my friends if that was flirting..lots said yea..but then a few said no thats just being mean...what do you think...and um how should i tell him that i think you like me...what should i say or should i even..HELP!

2007-02-13 08:51:42 · 5 answers · asked by anissa_1193 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone that you love is highly upset constantly and takes it out on you but you know that their hurtful words are only said in the heat of anger. If you truly love this person with all you heart. What do you do?

2007-02-13 08:51:25 · 6 answers · asked by upset 1 in Friends

2007-02-13 08:51:06 · 4 answers · asked by div 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't do anything right. And if I do everything perfect, she looks for something in any direction to jump on my case about. I mean really jumping on my case.

2007-02-13 08:51:04 · 10 answers · asked by terry 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
Lately I Have been wondering why people divorce eachother...and why there are so many unsuccessful relationships in the west.

I live in India and there are'nt many divorces here..My grandparents have been married for 60 years and are still happy,together.
My parents have been married for 30+ years and am sure they will stay together for the rest of their lives.
I am not saying these marriages are perfect.I have witnessed horrible fights .. But at the end of the day, one of them compromises.

Lately, divorces have become more frequent in India too.
Don't you think our elders are setting a bad example for us..
I am 23 years old and am allready skeptical about marriage and I am sure a lot of people all over the world feel the same way..

Is there a way we can find a solution to this ??

2007-02-13 08:51:04 · 8 answers · asked by mysteryman.princecharming 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friend called these 2 boyz, and they were acting all weird.
One of them as pretending 2 B this huge playa dude, and said his gf was over, it was obviously a lie, cause they don't have any GF's. He even disguised his voice to sound like the GF. The boys were saying weird things.
Examples:
"I am on a cruise ship with 20 girls, and I am a playa"
OR
"I am in bed with my girlfriend now."
OR
"I am in your backyard!!!!"
They were acting like such weird-o's.
One of them (that I like) said:
"Sarah, I have a girlfriend now. You must B sooo annoyed, cause u like me. Right? R u jeeeeeeelous?"
They were both acting weird.
One of da boys called me ugly, but whatever.

WHAT THE HECK WAS THE MESSAGE???
WERE THEY JUST BEING BOYS???
DID THEY LIKES US??

Ugh, I am so confused.

Sarah

2007-02-13 08:50:56 · 3 answers · asked by jaguargrrl27 1 in Singles & Dating

I may go to Florida this coming summer and looking forward to it.
I would love to live somewhere warm. I Love the sun and the heat.
Oh well grin and bear it I guess. Take Care and if you live somewhere cold, keep warm.

2007-02-13 08:50:18 · 13 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Other - Family & Relationships