What should i do?
2007-02-13 08:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you have to think to yourself if you really like the girl ur already with. Do u wanna go out with this other girl just because shes hot or do u actually like her personality also and think that you two will go well together? Don't be shallow or a jerk, take into consideration people's feelings, including urs.
Whatever you do, don't cheat on ur girlfriend, that is the worst thing to do, u'd look like such an asshole. Just do what u feel is right. And if u come to the conclusion that u want to be with this other girl, talk to ur present girlfriend and just tell her that you care about her so u don't want to lead her on. Shes a really nice girl and it has nothing to do with something she did or didn't do. Say that ur not feeling a spark between u guys and u don't think its fair to either of u if u continue to go out. Unless the girl is completely in love with you, then u can still prob. use what I said but be a little more sensitive cuz u won't want her to start crying. If you do break up with her, don't pretend like shes a disease and not talk to her if u see her though, u guys should still act normal in front of each other. Its not like ur 12.
You could also just think of pros and cons with both of the girls, (not just physical) and see which one u will be better with. Good luck, its a hard decision but stick with ur heart, not just ur head and not wut u think other people will think of u, do what is right! :-)
2007-02-13 09:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by impression722 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you do the right thing. If you want to go out with this other girl, the right thing to do is end the current relationship you are in before moving on. It is just the right thing to do. Just remember the old saying: "the grass is not always greener on the other side" But you are young. I encourage you in the future to commit to no one until you have dated quite a few girls...you'll know when it is the "right one."
2007-02-13 17:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your problem is????
I would go out with both of them..your not obligated by the first date to commit...this easy my friend...it is called dating casually, people in big cities do it all the time because we don't like to put all of our eggs on one basket...
2007-02-13 16:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tsk tsk respect your girlfriend
u never know next minute this "hot" girl might break up with u but at least u have your girlfriend
2007-02-13 16:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by simplysincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur with someone already i say dont b a jerk and say no to ur friends....if day were ur friends day would never do that 2 u. dont do it....at least break up with da grl ur wit now and den get wit dat other chick..
2007-02-13 16:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the girl you are with and she likes you, don't mess with a good thing
2007-02-13 16:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by lefty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do YOU want to date her, or do YOUR FRIENDS want you to date her.
DO WHAT U WANT, not what your friends want.
2007-02-13 16:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋