This is terrible I know, but I've had a crush on him for several years now. What should I do? I can't stand it anymore.
2007-02-13 08:58:23 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I haven't done anything!! It's just a feeling.
2007-02-13 09:02:29 · update #1
move away before you ruin your best friends life.
2007-02-13 09:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Keep it that way. Make sure you neither act on this or reveal it to a single soul, especially not to the husband in question.
If you cannot stand it then move. No good can come of this, really. He might have no problem flirting or even jumping into bed with you, but then what? You will find yourself in a huge mess and also loose your best friend. Go out there and find your own man.
2007-02-13 09:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's sad that you allowed your emotions to get there. It's nice to hear that you haven't made a move on him. But have you ever wonder if he made a move on you will you take it. Will you ruin your friend ship in hurt people. You need to step down. Leave your friend alone, don't be around her to much. And when she ask you just tell her you been real busy. Stay away. I don't think you don't need to be good or best friends with a female right now. Your dang-ours and you know it. Something wrong in your life in you want your friends life. You do, I bet if you were giving the chance you would be with her husband, in that's why you need to step back don't be a homewracker. Your telling us you can't stand it anymore, that tells me your ready to do something. You need to read ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger
2007-02-13 09:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, so do you ever feel like just doing 120 through town? Do you ever feel like smacking the **** out of someone? Sure you do. So how is this different? It is something you feel, but you know you shouldnt do it.
Hey, just pretend in your mind that you and he have been married for four years. That will make you go cold and not want to touch him or have him touch you. ROFL. See, problem solved that fast.
2007-02-13 09:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its OK your a normal female . All woman wont's what the other woman has its in your nature just as it is in the animal world
When you see animals running in pacts there is only one male .
there are 80% more woman willing to share there man and only 20% men willing to share there woman and most of the 20% are gay .
The best you can do is not to worry about it it is perfectly normal
2007-02-13 09:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come on now!
Thats not a friend...do something different and please dont tell a soul about your crush b/c it may get back to your friend.
Whatever you do leave that man alone!
The best of luck gurlie!
2007-02-13 09:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by ms.yahoo answers 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Avoid him at all costs, before you are tempted into acting on it.
It's probably just a case of the grass looking greener......but trust me--it isn't!
2007-02-13 09:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear God, everybody here is either messed up or pretending to be.
Grow up, and grow some self-esteem if you're for real.
2007-02-13 09:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from him! He is not your husband, you have no right to even "crush" on him. If you have any self respect at all you will stay away from him. Would you like someone to destroy your marriage (if you have one)?
2007-02-13 09:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by QT 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Honey its not your fault. Try to make new friends. Love hurts. And do your best ot move on. good luck sweety. xxxx
2007-02-13 09:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do them both a favor and stay away. Preferably, move to another state. Glad you're not my "best friend".
2007-02-13 09:01:18 · answer #11 · answered by Lotus 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋