Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

and i mean awesome.

2007-02-13 09:08:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you let your mother in law move in with you and your husband plus two kids and you didn't like her because you felt like she was muching off of you and so she wouldn't have to work?

2007-02-13 09:07:09 · 37 answers · asked by mrs.new_major_07 2 in Family

please help me out

2007-02-13 09:06:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 09:06:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband keeps telling me how sorry he is to have hurt me but this is so big. I feel I'm in mourning for the marriage I thought I had. I don't want to keep rubbing his nose in it, truly want to get past it but I'm so crushed it's destroying me. He says he loves me and nobody could love me more. But he drove past our house for years going to strip clubs, faked business trips & had escorts come to his room, the family money he squandered, the time that should have been for us...I kept being the perfect wife putting up with the emotional neglect because I thought he just didn't know what he had and would see my love and reciprocate. It was only when I investigated phone calls and bank account and even talked to the stripper whose number was all over his cell phone that he came clean. He kept denyed it until I told him I had spoken with her & said her name. Then he thanked me for being so decent. I don't want to hurt the children but my heart is broken, crushed, ripped out of me.

2007-02-13 09:06:16 · 21 answers · asked by Orquidea 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter and her soon to be husband and two year old son came to live with me from another state both are in there early 20s
she was unable to get along with her soon to be mother-inlaw now i know why she is rude and has no respect for anyone she thinks the world owes her something i raised her with values and morals and to be respectfull to others where did all this go im lost her boyfriend does everything including taking care of the baby while she sits on her butt yet both her father and i have never been lazy people so i cant understand why she is like this if i say something my grandchild will end up on the street becaues she doesnt like being told what to do so she will get up and leave and he will follow her becaues he takes her side i guess he loves being the wimp instead of telling her he has had enough of her lazyness of course i dont think he cares any advice would help thank you

2007-02-13 09:05:54 · 4 answers · asked by kayme42 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and we're pretty good friends and my friend found out he likes me too. the only thing is, we're both to scared to say anything. i've liked him for a whole year. he said he's scared to get hurt again because his 1st girlfriend pretty much dumped him on the first day and he doesn't want to see tears. i want him to know that i won't hurt him and that i wouldn't break up with him on the very first day, but i'm scared. should i make the first move? how do i build up the courage? pleaz help!

2007-02-13 09:05:47 · 8 answers · asked by LilRedChiliPepper 2 in Singles & Dating

They have never been married.
Their relationship is not good.
They do not get along.
It's just sex for him.
He spends more time with his "girlfriend"

2007-02-13 09:05:33 · 19 answers · asked by journeysmom 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 09:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is it possible for u just to fall out of love with ur bf or gf??? my best friend ask me last night im single so i dont know what to tell her!!! so ur advice would really help my friend!!!

2007-02-13 09:04:58 · 1 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister's boyfriend beat her up a few weeks ago (and hit her friend that was at their house), and he was in jail until today when he went to court. They charged him with two assaults, drunk under age, violation of previous probation, and violation of a protective order (she got a protective order that night and he called her from jail).

They gave him time served for the 3 weeks he's been in jail, and let him go. Now she's scared (and I am too) that he will come find her. She is hiding. She won't go to work. She won't come to my house because she is afraid he will come here looking for her.

Does anyone have any advice?

What do we have to do to get people to stop hitting their spouses?

Why did he get off scott free for all those charges?

Does anyone know how I can find out more details about the court case he had today?

Thanks in advance for any info you can help with.

2007-02-13 09:04:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And you don't really love them back, whether it be too early in a relationship or you just dont love them?

2007-02-13 09:04:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this wonderful person and as I got to know her, I fell in love with her. She makes everything possible, however, she doesn't feel the same for me. I have tried to be just friends, but it hurts too much now just being this way. I have tried not seeing her, but when I do, I fall once again. I don't want to feel this way any longer. I don't know what to do.

2007-02-13 09:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm engaged to a Marine and he's currently stationed at Camp Lejune, NC and I want to know if being married to him makes things easier. Because since we're planning to have a child, will being married make me eligible for certain benefits.

2007-02-13 09:04:17 · 9 answers · asked by foreveraaliayh 3 in Weddings

2007-02-13 09:04:07 · 13 answers · asked by justanotheruser 5 in Singles & Dating

I want to honor my father who passed in 99' at my wedding with out being to glummy. I thought to just have a chair with his name and a bouquet of flowers in the front row. Rather then making a special ceremony like the "rose cermony".

My brother did that at his wedding and everyone was balling, any other suggestions?

2007-02-13 09:03:53 · 22 answers · asked by Jessica S 4 in Weddings

Have lost sextual attraction to your husband after only 2 yrs of marriage ie i have a harder time becoming turned on?I am 26 he is 27.

2007-02-13 09:03:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love him i really do but he starting to see that i'm not as loving he's been gone for 4 wks workin. could that be that reason that i miss him. i just hate the fact that it seems like i put all the effort in to making this realtionship work. he loves me but he don't know how to express it what should i do?

2007-02-13 09:02:53 · 9 answers · asked by 04985426 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin died in her sleep many years ago and I wanna know how she could've possibly died. She had an autopsy and they couldn't find the cause of death. She was 4 years old at the time. Is dying of a bad dream a possibility?

2007-02-13 09:02:26 · 14 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

and wonder what wouldve happened if you did? everyones got at leasst one of these i think...

2007-02-13 09:01:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I probably sound really lame but I need help. I like this guy and I need to be sure if he likes me, he tries to talk to me, he looks at me sometimes, and if I meet his gaze he either smiles or looks away. He makes me laugh whenever I talk to him but he doesn't say anything when other guys compliment me. He is 2or3 years older than me but I'm mature for my age and he, well, isn't do you think he likes me?

2007-02-13 09:01:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 48 yr old husband last nite wer sharing our secrets.....and he confessed before we wer maried....he sucked his thumb until he was 38.....and sleped wif a teddy until he was 42.....played with lego till he was 41.....and that he was breastfeed until he was 8....and was a constant bedwetter and had 2 wer diapers until he was 31......

i thought this was funny, luckily he i all over these things now..

but i was wondering how common r all these things at a late age...and do males seem to grow up later and mature later than woman???

2007-02-13 09:00:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a coworker that I really like, however she is seeing another guy. When she told me about him, she told me not to tell anyone else about him. Well I didn't and still she hasn't told anyone else about this guy. Now she tells me that she doesn't want anyone at work to know about this guy because she says she doesn't like him enough yet to tell people about him. I also feel she has a strong attraction to me. She's always touching me and making comments, maybe jokingly about hooking up. I mean she says I can touch her butt and it just seems like she may want me but I am very hesitant to do anything because of the other guy she is seeing. I sometimes feel she may be frustrated that I haven't made a move on her yet? What do you guys think

2007-02-13 09:00:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This past weekend my x and I had sex, we have a child together and were madly in love but thing went bad and I moved away with our child. He never really got over me leaving with our son, but while I was gone he became involve with an older woman. His relationship is abusive on her part and he's told me he cant see having a life with her. He also stated that he had thought we would get back together after I came back 2 months ago, I was gone 2yrs and he's been with her for 1 1/2 yrs. The worst thing is she kinda knew he was thinking of leaving her so she got herself pregnant on purpose, he also work's for her family. I dont know what to think anymore, the whole time we had sex he was very distant, he told me he had never cheated on her before so why now with me, why not with someone else if all he wanted was sex, why complicate things for himself and me too. Does he still love me but still is mad cause I left? What should I do/ think of all this???

2007-02-13 09:00:13 · 2 answers · asked by wants to know??? 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I met this girl that lives 3 hours away. We have been in a long distance relationship for a month and a half. I like her SO much, but she still doesn't know if she will be going to europe 3 months from now, or coming back to this area. I try to see her every 2 weeks when she is available. I feel like I run out of things to talk about on the phone, and feel very needy in general. I want to make her feel happy to talk to me, but feel like I have been falling short lately. What can I do to make things better? We've already had an argument over her leaving, and apparantly I am only driving her away when I talk about her staying with me. Please help me with these issues.

2007-02-13 08:59:36 · 5 answers · asked by kakk333 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this really cute boy at school
all my friends think he is ugly
what does it mean if he likes me as a friend
according to my friends

2007-02-13 08:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's never met my fiance before. She says she'd like someone who could make her laugh for a sister-in-law. And I know my fiance could make her laugh. But I fear she wouldn't like her. I mean we're twins and ever since childhood, we swore to do everything together. I mean I feel like that's not fair 'cause she's still single and I'm getting married ahead of her. That could be a reason to hate her. What do you guys think?

2007-02-13 08:59:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My Fiancé mother tries to make every decision for us. I have giving my advice on how to stop this happening but my Fiancé always slips back to the old ways. I am a very strong willed person and I know this will be a very very serious problem if nothing changes.

Just for the record my fiancé hates the current situation and is badly stressed by it.

My mother-in law doesn't work so has loads of time to dream up ways to subtlety influence just about every any decision she is interested in the outcome of

I am convinced that she is only paying for our wedding reception so that she can influence(dictate) everything to do with the reception. (I don't want to sound ungrateful but it's my wedding, surely I should have the ultimate decision on all matters even if she is paying for the reception)

Any techniques, hints, suggestions on how my fiancé can control this would be most appreciated.

Note: Accepting that cutting off communications isn't fair but what else will work?

2007-02-13 08:59:22 · 17 answers · asked by Daffey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i hv a gf and i really love her, i said it to her.and she likes me too.but we're not a couple yet.because she still love her xbf.she ask for times.i really love her but i don't wanna push her.so im begging for answers,,,how can i open her heart,and let her accept me in her life and as her couple.i will not leave her but the pain i gained,really sucks..please,,,just show me the right way to open her heart..i know i hv 2 b patient..4 those who has experience on this..i wanna make her mine.

2007-02-13 08:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

describe your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend.

every detail!

2007-02-13 08:59:06 · 7 answers · asked by lys 1 in Singles & Dating