my daughter and her soon to be husband and two year old son came to live with me from another state both are in there early 20s
she was unable to get along with her soon to be mother-inlaw now i know why she is rude and has no respect for anyone she thinks the world owes her something i raised her with values and morals and to be respectfull to others where did all this go im lost her boyfriend does everything including taking care of the baby while she sits on her butt yet both her father and i have never been lazy people so i cant understand why she is like this if i say something my grandchild will end up on the street becaues she doesnt like being told what to do so she will get up and leave and he will follow her becaues he takes her side i guess he loves being the wimp instead of telling her he has had enough of her lazyness of course i dont think he cares any advice would help thank you
2007-02-13 09:05:54 · 4 answers · asked by kayme42 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd say that it's time for a little bit of tough love. If she wants to take her family on the street, that's her choice (and you have to let her), but while she's in your house, she should pull her weight.
2007-02-13 20:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe your hospitality is being abused by both of them. My answer would be to kick the pair of them out and make them both stand on their own two feet! Shes a mum make her behave like one!
2007-02-14 06:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by pepper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them get thier own place and if she marrys she needs to learn to get along with soon to be mother in law your daughter needs to grow up before she marrys and take care of her baby
2007-02-17 14:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick them all out.
2007-02-14 17:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋