She's never met my fiance before. She says she'd like someone who could make her laugh for a sister-in-law. And I know my fiance could make her laugh. But I fear she wouldn't like her. I mean we're twins and ever since childhood, we swore to do everything together. I mean I feel like that's not fair 'cause she's still single and I'm getting married ahead of her. That could be a reason to hate her. What do you guys think?
2007-02-13 08:59:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oops! I think I misspelled "fiance"! How do you spell it when you're a guy? 'Cause I'm a guy (and very poor at spelling sometimes).
2007-02-13 09:05:33 · update #1
I know, I know... Wrong spelling! So, it's fiancee, not fiance... 'Cause I'm a guy. Sorry, 'bout that. A little typo there.
2007-02-13 09:09:42 · update #2
Here's the thing: sometimes you meet and fall in love with someone who your family isn't crazy over. If your girlfriend is a good person who treats you right and you two truly love each other, that's all that should matter. If your sister ends up hating your girl over something petty, would you really give that person up? If you do, you don't ever need to be with anyone. Seriously. What's the point of falling in love with a really great person only to give it up for no good reason. You and your sister are grown now. The only thing your sister should look for when it comes to your to-be wife is that she loves you and treats you with kindness, dignity, and respect. Anything else is just extra.
2007-02-20 12:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Vasilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there should be a problem. Both are adults and both love you so don't stew on it. The only thing that I can think of that your sis may think your wife doesn't deserve you. Time will tell and you will deal with it. Just remeber when you marry your wife comes first, or didn't you know that?
2007-02-13 09:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances your twin sister liking your fiance is the same chances ANY sibling would like your fiance.
2007-02-13 09:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly if she loves you then she will except him in her life as well. I mean she people grow up and change and that is a way of life.
2007-02-20 05:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by regena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly if she loves you then she will except him in her life as well. I mean she people grow up and change and that is a way of life.
2007-02-13 09:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure if she loves u she is going to like him too,so don't worry and even if it doesn't happen in the first meeting it\s gonna happen after couple of times that they c each other cause both of them know that them getting along is important for u.
2007-02-20 05:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by tmoinian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I need a drink!
2007-02-13 09:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋