i hv a gf and i really love her, i said it to her.and she likes me too.but we're not a couple yet.because she still love her xbf.she ask for times.i really love her but i don't wanna push her.so im begging for answers,,,how can i open her heart,and let her accept me in her life and as her couple.i will not leave her but the pain i gained,really sucks..please,,,just show me the right way to open her heart..i know i hv 2 b patient..4 those who has experience on this..i wanna make her mine.
2007-02-13 08:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u really want her to accept u as her bf disappear for a while, we women sometimes don't appreciate what we have..right in front of our nose....if she's into u she'll come around..
2007-02-13 09:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sweety 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a painful situation for you, but, you cannot control someone else's feelings or behavior. Don't create more pain for yourself by trying to be someone other than who you are in the hopes she will fall in love with you. I know this is hard to hear, but, try to disentangle yourself from this relationship and open yourself up to finding another relationship where the feelings are reciprocal. Eventually, she may find that she has deeper feelings for you if you stop pushing so hard. Women, like men, can become wary of someone who seems obsessive about them. Good luck to you.
2007-02-13 17:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GIVE UP. If you care this much, then you need to keep trying to get that through her head. Tell her that you can't wait forever. Tell her that you can only wait so long. If she likes you so much then she ought to know how you feel. Truthfully the only thing that I can tell you to do is keep trying to get it through her head. Just don't push it too much. If she cares for you as much as you care for her she will come around. Just give her time and keep reminding her of how you feel every once in awhile.
2007-02-13 17:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd move on homie, YOU can't open her heart, unless you have a sharp can opener available, she has to do that. Apparently you will never compare to the ex and will always be second best. Something she might settle for, for a time.
Is that what you want?
2007-02-13 17:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dane 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋