wat up with this chick?

Question

I have a coworker that I really like, however she is seeing another guy. When she told me about him, she told me not to tell anyone else about him. Well I didn't and still she hasn't told anyone else about this guy. Now she tells me that she doesn't want anyone at work to know about this guy because she says she doesn't like him enough yet to tell people about him. I also feel she has a strong attraction to me. She's always touching me and making comments, maybe jokingly about hooking up. I mean she says I can touch her butt and it just seems like she may want me but I am very hesitant to do anything because of the other guy she is seeing. I sometimes feel she may be frustrated that I haven't made a move on her yet? What do you guys think

Answer 1

DOG...be a man, tell her you dont care about him, and tell her what time will you pick her up this friday? If she doesnt go out with, you than just forget about her, dont even say high....since women are attention whores, this will probably cause her to pursue you harder

Answer 2

I would ask her to lunch and get to know her better. She may like you. It almost sounds as if she does. Lunch with a co-worker is innocent and you will have a chance to talk on a more personal level. Overtime, if you feel comfortable, ask her on a date. You will never know her answer without asking the question.
Good Luck!

Answer 3

is she really seeing this other guy or has she made up some story to suss your feelings out about her, hence the reason she doesn't want you telling anyone else...?

it's a bit weird to say 'you can touch my butt' if she's not interested in you!!

good luck :)

Answer 4

i think you should ask her to have lunch, really get to know her. nothing romantic just a sit down lunch-talk as friends.

Answer 5

man grab her booty and say you want to give yall a try.