i love him i really do but he starting to see that i'm not as loving he's been gone for 4 wks workin. could that be that reason that i miss him. i just hate the fact that it seems like i put all the effort in to making this realtionship work. he loves me but he don't know how to express it what should i do?
2007-02-13 09:02:53 · 9 answers · asked by 04985426 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people dont show their emotions..Either put up with it or split up.
2007-02-20 00:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really does take two people to work at a relationship, for it to be , a happy, healthy, balanced, successful partnership. If the relationship is too one sided, stress will eventually lead to problems of resentment, leading to arguing, and discontent. If you are already feeling the pressure of contributing most of the effort, you are headed for trouble. If your boyfriend is not an overly affectionate, or attentive guy, you probably will not be able to change that. If you need some one who can show and express their affections, I think you should figure out if he is for you. I think he will realize you are getting fed up, by the lack of your affectionate actions towards him.
2007-02-21 08:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure exactly what you are saying. You say that you love him, but you are ready to stop trying. My guy is long distance right now too so I know that it's hard, but if you love him then you have to show it and stay with him no matter what. That's my advice, good luck.
2007-02-21 04:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, my God, you sound too young to be hanging around hoping he will meet your expectations. Life ticks away when you are waiting, waiting for something you know isn't gonna happen. Before you know it you will have thrown away YEARS waiting for him to make you happy. Gently let him go and actively look for who you really want. Good Luck to you.
2007-02-19 13:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
please, please, what ever you do, don't become one of those girls i see on "cheaters" every week that blame their significant other for not being there for them, you'll look the fool. Just tell him how you feel, and see if you really want this relationship to work cause you love him or if its just the fact that that you don't want to be alone.
2007-02-21 03:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by graduate_boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing u can do is talk it out with him,express yourself first and he may do the same.if he doesen,t know whats on your mind or going on, then what do u expect from him?.just be honest and upfront with him.
2007-02-21 03:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about how you feel
you probably do miss him cause hes away from you but if hes constantly away on work then you need to think about whether its worth all the heartache to stay wit him
2007-02-18 15:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let him know what you need out of the relationship. If he isn't willing, then move on!
2007-02-13 09:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
talk to him about it... thats pretty much all you can do... tell him how you feel... tell him that you miss him...
2007-02-21 08:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by Aura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋