Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

Age:____Male:____Female:____Married?_____Divorced?____
Do you have Children?____ #_____
Age when parents divorced?____
Custodial Parent? Father?____Mother?____
# of Siblings?____Younger?____Older?____
Your Highest Level Of Education?____
As A Child/Teen/Young Adult Did You:
Use Drugs?____Alcohol?____Have Behavior Problems?____
Did your parents have the same rules?____
Were you asked questions regarding the other parent?____
Did your parents frequently fight in front of you?____
Did your parents speak negatively about one another?____
Did parents ask you to keep secrets from the other?____
Did your parent allow things the other parent would not?____
Did both parents attend your school/sports functions?____
Did you feel pulled into adult problems?____
Regular Visits w/ Non-Custodial Parent?____
Did you feel forced to take sides?____
Did either parent blame the other for financial problems?____
Did you feel like the mediator?____
Were you raised in any religion?____

2007-02-13 13:41:58 · 10 answers · asked by Jenna W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know of any sites where I can find pics of beach wedding dresses?

2007-02-13 13:41:42 · 5 answers · asked by anngeez2005 1 in Weddings

why cant you guys lust be honest and why do you all of a sudden change for no apparent reasons why cant you love some 1 and love hard like us women do. are you all just full of it or does it take you 2 really find that special some1 to fall in love and stay there

2007-02-13 13:41:12 · 8 answers · asked by rhotgurl1 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and my friend said that he liked me but then i had another friend ask him and he said "as a friend". But 2day my friend said that he likes her(she doesnt no i like him). im really not sure what 2 do! Should i just flirt, tell him i like him or what? pleez help!

2007-02-13 13:40:59 · 1 answers · asked by brunette babe 2 in Singles & Dating

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/b)...... and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-02-13 13:39:55 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Family

2007-02-13 13:39:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just moved in a new apartment and money is tight, but i did save $100 dollars for valintines day, and i want her to feel real special, within the 100 50 of it is reserved to take her somewhere nice to eat, so from a mature womans point of view what else could i do to make her feel real special?

2007-02-13 13:39:11 · 4 answers · asked by DUSTY 3 in Singles & Dating

I was fired a over a year ago from a department store at the mall because I talked back to my manger (this was a new manager who had cut my hours down to 8 hours a week). I had always been able to add hours to my schedule with the other managers because they knew I was a good worker. This new b**** didn't want to hear it though. I was having trouble consentrating on my work that night (but why would I , after all I was going to make 56 dollars that week before taxes, wow). I kept asking her for more hours and we kinda got into it and I said something I shouldn't have, not profanity, but she didn't take it well and fired me on the spot. It went on record as gross misconduct and I was forbidden from entering the store for life. I usually meet my dates at the mall for coffee and some of them want to walk around the mall and talk. It's a good safe way to spend time together too. However, I have had some who wanted to go into the store that I worked at and well I can't go in.

2007-02-13 13:39:08 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

This girl I talk to sad all this all ove this

i wanna marry a really really good guy and have kids / she seas that’s could be me
i think your really sweet and you seem like you have future plans which i like alot.. so where do u want to go to colledge? wait u havent talked to ur mom about me did u??????
hey babe i am not mad at u either ive gotta hurry tho..im sory i was at a party too... and i havent been home but i love u so freaken much
but im sorry love ya and good night
when u told me u love me did u mean it?
yea babe im here
awww how sweet....
baby! love u lots have a good dream bout me..see u there tonight! lol seriously and that was very cute for u to say u care cuz im ur girl
ok sweet dreams! love ya! see ya in my dreams @ 11:30! this is so cute/lame/funny/sweet.... lol all of them at once but ok i really ogtta go b4 im late...
love you very much
that was sweet well they all are sweet. but we all know you did more than think of me! lol but yea im worken on the trust thing.. it doesnt just come.. you have to earn it and ur doing good! it takes a while tho
i love ya and good night!
ok cool i'll remember that..ok night..sweet dreams.
lol last time i say that lol good night love ya
i trust you... but i havent yet got the full trust issue down... dont worry bout it cuz it takes a while for a relationship to form anyways!
baby are u there now or did u leave me?

But then this happen I asked her
so u r my gf
She seed no
So what do u girls think ove this plezz plezzz help

2007-02-13 13:39:00 · 1 answers · asked by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/b)...... and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-02-13 13:38:38 · 25 answers · asked by Lisa B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

will get hurt trying to run it. You see I break the horses to ride. What should I do? Should I become a cop instead of a coast guard? My term if I sign up for the coast guard is 4 years ,and the age limit is 27 years old. I am 21yrs. old and currently enrolled in college for a social work major. I finish soon ,and I am afraid that I will get bored with the major. What should I do?

2007-02-13 13:38:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-13 13:37:37 · 18 answers · asked by Live life. 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I met this girl on myspace. She's perfect. We get along great, we love each other and things are great. We just started to talk on the phone and there are SOME awkward pauses. We've managed to laugh about it but I'd rather we didn't have awkward pauses. Any advice?????
And don't give me that "be yourself" stuff because I already know that.

2007-02-13 13:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by slowhand6780 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, we'll call him... Chad? Me and Chad became really close this year, as friends. A little while ago my friend told him that I liked him. He stopped talking to me and would always seem uncomfortable when we made eye contact. I missed hanging out with him so much! Noticing what happend to our relationship, I told him we were just joking around and it was a dare. We became friendly again. Only problem is I still like him.

So does he like me and feel awkward or does he not want me to like him and ignore me until I don't..?

2007-02-13 13:36:35 · 7 answers · asked by Morgan<3 3 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girls that i like and i rhink she lies me caze shes always messin it me
But shes had a bf ever since i met her in Augest
I asked her out before but she said that she couldnt becaue she had a bf
I know she likes me cuze of the way she acts
And i know that she knows i like her
we always talk and mess around and stuff but weve never done anything seriuos because she dosent want to cheat on her bf wit any1
I mean i really love her but i dont know if i can take this any longer
Its like she gives me hope and then lets me done kindda like shes playin a gane wit me

Shoud i wait untill she breaks up wit her bf or should i find somebody else?

2007-02-13 13:36:07 · 9 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 13:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by Myaloo 5 in Singles & Dating

rite so tis me mams 50th bday soon\! excuse me im pissed) wot can i do am only daughter wanna make it special plzzzzzzz help she aint lookin 4ward tto beein 50

2007-02-13 13:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-13 13:33:43 · 6 answers · asked by USER 3 in Family

Am just curious, who gets the best treatment, the wife who runs the home, does all the hard work to keep the family and home running smoothly with the normal things running with stability or the mistress who see's the man occationally, get all the exitement that is short lived, seeing the man at his best behaviour, goes to the best places but will spend xmas alone?

2007-02-13 13:33:23 · 29 answers · asked by lulu 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have been going out w/ bf for not even one day lol..
but do u think its to quik to kiss him btw i am 12 and he is 14.

2007-02-13 13:33:02 · 8 answers · asked by sad 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do people do this? Why would you date someone you don't even like, and who doesn't like you? It sounds so stupid to me! What do you think and what is the point of this? <3

2007-02-13 13:32:32 · 14 answers · asked by Lady Sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

lemme describe:
shes asian, hong kong born
turning 17
listens to ipod a lot
shy quiet type


i don't have a clue what to get her, i asked her what she wanted and shes like "anything......."

2007-02-13 13:31:57 · 21 answers · asked by twiztedweb 2 in Friends

What is you defintion of true love how do u know you have found it

2007-02-13 13:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The problem is I feel so very alone. My mother is the only person I can ask for help, but she is only emotional supportive when everything in her life is just right. Any financial assistance is always considered a loan(I put myself through college-and always paid her back when help was needed)Pretty much she is unreliable(she left my siblings and I from age 2-16). I have no friends to lean on, and I don't know if I can handle all the stress of transferring my life into single-motherhood. I've been stay-home-mom since he was born(he's 14 months now), and although I have a plan and have taken some action, I'm scared to death, I am emotionally drained from the situation(the abuse towards my son was caught on tape-immediate action has been taken) and I truely don't have anyone I can trust, but my own physical and spiritual strength. Has anyone else been through tough situations alone and how did you cope?

2007-02-13 13:31:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you've read my previous questions ... you probably know a little about me ... I've realized that everytime I fall for girl ... its always because of the way she looks .... and then later i start knowing who she is and then either i like her if she's nice or i don't (i'm looking for an indian girl and most indian girls where i live are spoilt and have lost their culture .. i live in USA) .... but i still feel guilty because regardless of whether she turns out nice or not ... the fact is that the FIRST reason why i liked her was because of the way she looked .... i know that everyone wants the person they love to be the most beautiful thing in the world ... but i still feel guilty because usually, if i have a day dream ... the girl in there usually resembles some pretty girl ... and THAT pretty girl that it resembles usually isn't even nice!!! ... i mean not all the times but still .. i have a hard time understanding life and feel guilty ... how can i get more mature and ignore looks?

2007-02-13 13:31:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he says him and his gf have no where else to go, should i let him?
i wouldnt mind, its just kind of disturbing

2007-02-13 13:31:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-13 13:31:07 · 5 answers · asked by nex 1 in Family

There's a guy I've known for over 10 years off and on. The last several months we've gotten to be very close friends, and he's gotten to know my husband and children as well.

The other day he took me to a furniture store in his truck to pick something up. My husband was working so my niece babysat. When we got back, I took my niece home and he stayed with the kids while I was gone (15 minutes tops).

Today I got a call from my mother lecturing me cause I left the kids with him for a few minutes, and how I don't know him well enough to trust him.... when the fact is,... its HER that doesn't know him. She implied that I'm negligent and incompetent as a parent, that I put my children in danger,... she yelled and argued.... and when I argued back, she hung up on me.

Am I wrong to be angry that my own mother thinks I'm a negligent and incompetent parent when everything I've ever done proves otherwise? And how do I forgive that kind of insult, especially from my own mother?

2007-02-13 13:31:06 · 7 answers · asked by just_me3575 3 in Family

Guys, what makes a girl good in bed?

2007-02-13 13:30:35 · 29 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

I was a single mom with two sons. My ex is father to the oldest son. Took me to court with a bunch of lies, I had no lawyer and he won supervised visits. He gets to pick who supervises and he picks himself. I don't feel comfortable being around him. Was verbally abusive during marriage. Now he is trying to take away my parental rights so his wife can adopt. I am currently married and have two kids that we have 24/7 who are very healthy, happy, and smart kids. We plan to get a lawyer. Any ideas on how I can get unsupervised visits.

2007-02-13 13:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by kschocolatelover 1 in Marriage & Divorce