The problem is I feel so very alone. My mother is the only person I can ask for help, but she is only emotional supportive when everything in her life is just right. Any financial assistance is always considered a loan(I put myself through college-and always paid her back when help was needed)Pretty much she is unreliable(she left my siblings and I from age 2-16). I have no friends to lean on, and I don't know if I can handle all the stress of transferring my life into single-motherhood. I've been stay-home-mom since he was born(he's 14 months now), and although I have a plan and have taken some action, I'm scared to death, I am emotionally drained from the situation(the abuse towards my son was caught on tape-immediate action has been taken) and I truely don't have anyone I can trust, but my own physical and spiritual strength. Has anyone else been through tough situations alone and how did you cope?
2007-02-13 13:31:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are showing alot of character and strength//i have been there and it looks worse than it really is ,you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you once you are in the situation ask for your best friend and talk to Him,He will take you step by step in hand and lead you,you will find that there is alot of happiness,contentment and peace on its way/when you think you cant cope or are scared talk to Him/He will relieve you of all your fear and worry.................good luck..............May God Bless you
2007-02-14 07:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I encourage your independence & I am a child of divorce. My father was heavley on drugs in the 80's & physically abused my mother from the time they marriade ( he shot guns, beat her ,hit her with bottles ) . My mother did not have the best relationship with her own mother you see my father was self employed & wealthy He baught off my grandma quite often for her silence & or assistance. When my parents divorced I was quite young 5 yrs old but my memory is very long & unforgiving . I have people who I know stay in relationships for the sake of their kids . Well I was kid once now I am barely 29 NO MAN,WOMAN or BEAST better put there hands on me nor my kids . Did you see the "burning bed" , with Farrah Faceit ? Things don't have to come to that sometimes you have to put yourself above all others including your kids . If you stay you will exhaust all energy until you become suicadal then who will take care of your kids then .
2007-02-13 14:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
discover an enduring pastime first, get a nanny to assist out on your son. Then in elementary words document for divorce. in this global in recent times, no longer something is loose even possessing a house. Be strong and earn your human being save. economic self sustaining out of your husband is the very key of having a sturdy felony professional, your son and the homestead. artwork in the direction of your objective and also you may want to not in any respect be incorrect. not in any respect starts something with no plan.
2016-11-03 09:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many churchs in your country, and people interesting in your situation, and all people that need, truly some spiritual and economical helps. You can look for help there. The religion isn´t important...ok? Don´t be afraid touch doors and you´ll see... God is with you!!! You don´t know him but he knows you.... and he going to make you strong, to continue up in this world...
God bless you...
2007-02-13 13:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by princessita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are support groups. You need to find someone to talk to you. Find a battered womens shelter for help or law enforcement should be able to get you some information.
Bless you for getting out! You have a lot of courage!
2007-02-13 13:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by cool chic 2no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋