Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

I have friends who treat me badly in public, yet in private they are ok, however in public I was virtually invisible. They did not acknowledge me publicly as a friend. And in addition, they also get along well with a lot of ppl, managing to put up a good impression in front of them. It's very difficult to get other ppl to see their hypocrisy. How can I deal with them?

2007-02-13 13:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

3wks ago my b/f was totally nice to me and considerate and he says stuff like, "I'm so crazy about you." Ever since the day after that, he's been really distant, never IMing me or calling or texting me or asking to hang out and then about three days ago, he IMed me while I was idle saying that he said he really had to talk and that something really bad happened but he didn't want to talk about it and he wanted to tell me that he wasn't going to prom anymore (he'd invited me a while back). Then, ever since then, he never talks to me and when I IMed him, he always cut me off saying he was busy. I got tired of him and I told him I needed to talk to him and I that we weren't working out and he said he was thinking the same thing!

Is he a jerk for doing this and why did he act that way?

He's 16 btw, if his age has anything to do with why he acted that way.

2007-02-13 13:52:28 · 44 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and I are separated, but have no legal documents of separation, well he slept with another woman while we were separated, he just left for the Navy....what will they do to him (as far as courts go)?

2007-02-13 13:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in highschool now and althought I love my new friends to death...i dono....i just feel like i wud give anything to hang out with my old friends again.....they were funnier.....i was just so much more close with them...haha i went to school with them for nine years! not saying that im not happy at the highscool im at...i just find myself being very sad and wishing i was still in eighth grade with all my old friends....any solutions or maybe a new way to look at it?

2007-02-13 13:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by x0xlelex0x 2 in Friends

wouldnt it make more sense to make the bologna square to fit the square bread..

2007-02-13 13:50:38 · 13 answers · asked by Prostidude 2 in Singles & Dating

U and a couple of freinds including your crush went on a drive in the mountains then after your trip your freinds drove u home and intrusted u with the camera, when looking at the pics on your computer u see the pics of your crush and just get turned on and u think to your self, 'It wouldn't hurt to print a few pics of my crush i meen whos gonna know'. Then u do it and u think that the printer only copyied 1 copy for each pic but actually it copied double and u didn't notice and it remained by the printer. The next day when your freinds including your crush come over to veiw the pics they look by the printer and see only printed pics of your crush and then your crush sees the pics. This happened to me and i was totally ambarrassed cus none of my freinds knew that i liked him nor did he and they began laughing at me. WHAT would u do if this happened

2007-02-13 13:50:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I kind of 'fessed up to this guy whom I'm friends with, and have been for several years, that I use to have feelings for him back in the day, and all he said was, "You don't want to date me". What does that mean?

2007-02-13 13:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by redangus22 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex and I broke up almost a month ago,he still cant get over me.And to make matters horrible,he keeps asking me to date him agine.And I already have a boyfriend! He even knows I do.and haveing him keep bothering me and keep asking me is makeing my man mad.My ex follows me around every were i have tryed to tell him to leve me alone and stop following me.But he just keeps following me like a lost dog.He is now saying horrible things to my friends and to my boyfriend.He is also being as mean as ever to me because i tell him to leve me alone.And no matter how i try he just wont leve me alone and stop asking me.

2007-02-13 13:49:43 · 5 answers · asked by heather F 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think about a large age gap between a couple?

i my self have seen as much as a 20 to 30 year gap in a couple and they were married for way over 40 even 50 years untill the one of them passed a way.

2007-02-13 13:49:39 · 11 answers · asked by 99half 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-13 13:49:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I definitely believe that there are some women that are better suited for long term relationships or marriage, and there are some that are more loose and there for no man really respects or would think of committing to them. To me Hispanic women seem to be the more marriage material type then any other women, they seem to be more traditional and enjoy being feminine compared to other women. I’m white and grew up in a town with very few Hispanic women, but about two years ago I moved to Miami for my job and met a wonderful Cuban woman that opened my eyes. She was like no women I ever met before, it was so refreshing to find such a respectful, hard working, sweet, caring, women. I never knew I had so much in common with a women from another background, but we enjoy the same music, movies, TV shows, books, both of us are tall, both are in to being physically fit, both of us are Christian, ect. We are not as different as we thought, In fact I have more in common we her then with white women. We plan on having a traditional loving marriage with a white picket fence and a large family. And for the first time I know I can absolutely trust my partner with being honest and monogamous.

This is just my opinion and experiences but I have noticed guys mentioning the same thing, they tell me all the time when they settle down they want to settle down with a Hispanic women because of their wonderful qualities and can’t see themselves ending up with modern American women cause they just can’t get along with them.

So do you think Hispanic women are better wife material?

2007-02-13 13:49:03 · 3 answers · asked by JAse 1 in Singles & Dating

I definitely believe that there are some women that are better suited for long term relationships or marriage, and there are some that are more loose and there for no man really respects or would think of committing to them. To me Hispanic women seem to be the more marriage material type then any other women, they seem to be more traditional and enjoy being feminine compared to other women. I’m white and grew up in a town with very few Hispanic women, but about two years ago I moved to Miami for my job and met a wonderful Cuban woman that opened my eyes. She was like no women I ever met before, it was so refreshing to find such a respectful, hard working, sweet, caring, women. I never knew I had so much in common with a women from another background, but we enjoy the same music, movies, TV shows, books, both of us are tall, both are in to being physically fit, both of us are Christian, ect. We are not as different as we thought, In fact I have more in common we her then with white

2007-02-13 13:48:39 · 20 answers · asked by JAse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we're looking to get married around august or september... and our dream is to have a casual beach wedding with a bonfire and tiki torches... ya know, more beach party than stuffy wedding. any advice or suggestions is GREATLY appreciated... i can't find anything online... and beach clubs and hotels are crazy expensive. THANKS!

2007-02-13 13:48:25 · 7 answers · asked by T-Bone44 2 in Weddings

2007-02-13 13:48:18 · 9 answers · asked by me!!!!!!! 1 in Friends

Okay, I have this thing for HUGE eyebrows, so this guy I like is really cute but after showing my mom a picture, she said his eyebrows were so bad that he didn't seem like he'd have girls fighting over him. She said it looked like he had a foreign animal growing on his face.

I'm a decent catch, but he's going to PRINCETON next year, so of course I'm self conscious about him being out of my league and so on, but he does show signs of liking me and he thinks I'm super cool and so on.
I like him a lot, but obviously due to my lack of social status (I'm basically Cinderella, 16 but poor and can't drive and not popular, but... I'm pretty and have decent inner qualities) I'm worried about competition, which is legitimate.

So yeah, if a guy is otherwise cute but has the thickest eyebrows ever (about an inch and a half), would that really make him undesirable to most girls? Do girls judge eyebrows that harshly? (I myself have a thing for them)

2007-02-13 13:48:08 · 2 answers · asked by Jenny 4 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-13 13:47:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why do most guys treat you as they normally do when they are dating you and everything is cool .. but after YOU break up with the girl then you act like nothing ever happened between the two of you and when she tries to talk to you that you just blow her off .. guys, did you ever do that .. and if so, then why?

2007-02-13 13:47:33 · 3 answers · asked by Annika 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 13:47:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So I'm 15 and on my schools Formal Dance my girlfriend said she was tired and wanted to go home, so she went home and a went to one of my friends parties. My friend lives on my street but goes to a private school, so I don't know her friends. Anyways, at the party, me and one of her friends hit it off and decided to go back to my house cause my parents leave the last weekend of everyone month for two days.
So all alone at my house, we ended up having sex. It was random and i wasn't expecting it, but we both wanted to so we did. Wow, she just completely blows my gf out of the water. It was so good that I hardly even want to have sex with my gf anymore. Now I'm torn between my relationship, and having sex with the new girl, who comes over to my neighbor's house a lot and wants to hang out with me. help!

2007-02-13 13:47:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 13:46:59 · 3 answers · asked by eurasia 1 in Friends

The guy that likes me and I like him said that he was going to do something for Valentines day. I'm afraid that he forgot. We are both are 15. And another thing what should I do for him for tomorrow? I have no idea this is my first real valentines day with a guy that likes me.

2007-02-13 13:45:23 · 4 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2 in Singles & Dating

He said he moved out due to the stress...but still wants me to tell him everything that is going on...he calles every day and asks how i am and if everything is ok...and still helps me with everything...I dont understand any of it...

2007-02-13 13:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by hurtalloveragainks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-02-13 13:45:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents and my younger sister are all so dysfuncational, they yell, lie, violent physically, my mom try to pit me against my sister, i've moved out 5 years ago, how can i completely break out from my dysfunctional root and have a normal life?

2007-02-13 13:44:45 · 12 answers · asked by tostosh 1 in Family

So, I guess thats it, he blew me off?
I went out for 4 hours Saturday with this guy just to get to know eachother. We emailed eachother once on Sunday and he called me later that night, but the conversation wasnt very long maybe 40 min. Monday came and went. Now Tuesday evening I emailed him early this afternoon asked how is day was going. You know small chit chat. I have not heard from him at all, not even an email. Part of my family has met him. He thought they were great and was happy to meet them. The only thing is, is I dont wait around for no guy if I dont hear from them. But my family is telling me to just wait and see. I have not heard back from him since Sunday. Not even an email today or a voice message. Valenties day is tomorrow and nothing he doesnt have my address, but I cant help but feel I have been blown off and now I sit here on V-day with no guy. Am I reading to much into this to fast? Or do you think he really blew me off? I mean come on a guy cant take a minute to

2007-02-13 13:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf have been talking about moving in together for a few months. We have been together for 8 months. She has $60,000 in debt. She also has a freeloading brother that has to stay with us(he is 23 and works but does not give $$). She is working hard at 2 jobs to keep herself afloat. I love her but all that plus her chaotic schedule and stressed attitude is not something I like. I have expressed my concerns to her but she blows them off. Now her lease is expiring in a couple of months and she is expecting me to move in to help with the bills. I told her I do not think I can do it after all and she got very upset. Any Adviice? Thanks for your responses.

2007-02-13 13:43:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Age:____Male:____Female:____Married?_____Divorced?____
Do you have Children?____ #_____
Age when parents divorced?____
Custodial Parent? Father?____Mother?____
# of Siblings?____Younger?____Older?____
Your Highest Level Of Education?____
As A Child/Teen/Young Adult Did You:
Use Drugs?____Alcohol?____Have Behavior Problems?____
Did your parents have the same rules?____
Were you asked questions regarding the other parent?____
Did your parents frequently fight in front of you?____
Did your parents speak negatively about one another?____
Did parents ask you to keep secrets from the other?____
Did your parent allow things the other parent would not?____
Did both parents attend your school/sports functions?____
Did you feel pulled into adult problems?____
Regular Visits w/ Non-Custodial Parent?____
Did you feel forced to take sides?____
Did either parent blame the other for financial problems?____
Did you feel like the mediator?____
Were you raised in any religion?____

2007-02-13 13:42:56 · 7 answers · asked by Jenna W 1 in Family

2007-02-13 13:42:42 · 7 answers · asked by jc c 2 in Singles & Dating

2MORRO is valentines day and this boy just asked me to be his valentines but i dont like him ... he is so sweet and i dont want to hurt his feelings.... but he is not my type of guy and he is in my class so im goin 2 b seing him alot.... wat should i do?? if i say yes bout bein my valentine does that mean im going out wit him or is it just for a day??? plz help i need 2 noe quick b4 time runs out.....

2007-02-13 13:42:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All my friends smoke weed all the time. I live in a small town and their is not much to do here. So that is all my friends so basically all the time. Even if they are going somewhere, on the way their they will smoke. I don't smoke at all. I feel so weird when I hang out with them. I can't even just hang out with one of my friends at a time anymore because they dont want to smoke alone and I don't go half and half with them. What should I do

2007-02-13 13:42:00 · 7 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Friends