WHAT?!!!!!!! GUYS ARE ridiculously annoying. WHY?

Question

3wks ago my b/f was totally nice to me and considerate and he says stuff like, "I'm so crazy about you." Ever since the day after that, he's been really distant, never IMing me or calling or texting me or asking to hang out and then about three days ago, he IMed me while I was idle saying that he said he really had to talk and that something really bad happened but he didn't want to talk about it and he wanted to tell me that he wasn't going to prom anymore (he'd invited me a while back). Then, ever since then, he never talks to me and when I IMed him, he always cut me off saying he was busy. I got tired of him and I told him I needed to talk to him and I that we weren't working out and he said he was thinking the same thing!

Is he a jerk for doing this and why did he act that way?

He's 16 btw, if his age has anything to do with why he acted that way.

Answer 1

Erm, There's 4 games that the United Nations Guaranteed will cut off social life:
Halo
Counter Strike 1.6
Counter Strike: Source
MapleStory

This is just a theory, but if you get to talk to him, ask him if he knows of any of these games.

Also,
It may have sounded like he was really happy at first, but maybe he began to have second thoughts very early, as early as the next day.
He may have not wanted to hurt your feelings about breaking it to you so quickly.
He may have waited to the point where you would say that it isn't working out, raising his confidence, making him think it would be easier to say at a time like that.

If not, then,
He might be one of those people who give up on things very easily, and never try their best on things, Which, by my mind, is 80% of males I know.

So Conclusion:
He might come back to mind and apologize to you for his foul acts, or he might move on to somebody else immediately, or he'll be alone for another year or two, or never.

My diagnosis tells me that you really cared for this relationship, but didn't think he cared as much, so you knew that you can't love somebody who doesn't love you. But for him to say he was thinking the same-- to break up... You should go single for a bit, and meanwhile become strong friends with somebody else you know VERY well, and when you're ready, you could ask them to go steady, or to get somewhere.

FS: Move On, as he does the same.

I hope this helped you~

*Best-Answer me, plz :3*
Thanks for your time,
-JJ

Answer 2

Firstly, he's only 16 so he probably is a little immature. Secondly, for whatever reason he doesn't seem to be as interested as he was initially. I think that men are more changeable like that than women generally. However, whatever the reason (and there must be one), its probably best that you either talk to him one time and ask him why he behaved like that/tell him that you did not appreciate the way he handled things. This way he might learn how to behave better the next time something similar happens again. Or else, you could simply forget about him and just move on, and not contact him again. Try to forgive him for acting like an idiot because we all make mistakes sometimes-but don't contact him again. He's very young, and so are you. Just enjoy being young and don't bother with relationships until someone really lovely comes along. The way he treated you was not very nice at all because everyone deserves an explanation, even if its not a very nice one. Try not to worry about it-just hang out with your friends and you'll quickly forget about him. You deserve someone much nicer and you shouldn't bother with anyone less. xxx

Answer 3

for some reason he distant his self from you. 9 chances out of 10 he found some1 new or hes really going through a hard time maybe with school home grades you never know until he opens up and is ready to talk and tell you. i mean yeah that proably hurt like hell when he told you he didnt want to go to prom anymore you know but thats all apart of life we live and we learn really! i mean you know him better than any1 on this yahooo anwers thing. did he ever keep big things from you if no 9 0ut of 10 he found some 1 knew, but dont worry cause if you tried all you could to be a good girlfriend he will come back to you just 1 thing will change you might be over him hope i helped you out have a great v-day. And rember after the rain theres always a rainbow!!!

Answer 4

Wow yeah that sucks. I'm 16 too. Guys never make sense, so I hate how they say that women make no sense. I have very similar experiences with being blown off by guys and so on. Even though I'm pretty, 5'9",127 pounds, 34c and so on I never manage to get relationships up to the first date point. It's weird as hell. The only two guys I have dated, one turned out gay, the other has aspergeur's syndrome (basically makes you awkward and weird and gives you no ability to comprehend social situations, it's described by one theorist as being extremely male) So yes, guys suck. I sometimes try making up explanations for why they act this way, maybe I scare them off or something, but... there's really no reason for guys to act that way. If a nice girl goes after you you should go along with it. You seem nice and smart and capable, obviously the guy is going through some problems but mainly he's only thinking about himself... guys don't tell their problems much it seems. Even the gay ones can be cruel and insensitive, and even girls can be just as bad. Umm so... I guess I'd say don't worry or whatever, but being in the same situation I know you're going to dwell on it for a while.

Answer 5

He's playin' ya girl! =(
It's called infatuation... look it up in the dictionary.
And besides, it seemed that the relationship was doomed to fail anyways, because you two rely TOO MUCH on IMing one another and not enough face-to-face real live conversation.

Remember this lesson next time your in a relationship and you should be fine. =)

Oh, I wouldn't call him a jerk 'cuz most 16 year olds are really like that...I was once and had to learn the hard way, now I'm a nice guy see! lmao! =)

solution to your problem: get another guy for the prom

Good Luck Christy J.

Answer 6

Honestly He's Young. Yes he says I'm crazy about you but he's telling you what you want to hear. From young guys that I've talked to they say they don't get as emotionally attached like girls do. I don't think he really wanted a real relationship, he just wanted a girlfriend... nothing more nothing less. Don't even worry about... don't stress about it... don't think about it too hard. Yes it's hard not to think about it because you probably cared about him alot, and it might hurt for a little, but you'll get over it. Your young, and beautiful and you have your whole life ahead of you. There's someone else out there for you. He lost someone special and not the other way around. Yes he's a jerk but most 16 year old boys are so don't worry about it. !! lots of love!!

Answer 7

Hey, SHUT UP! >:(

Women are just as irritating if not more so. At least you have an idea of what's happening in the head of a guy, while women sometimes act so incredibly contrary to how they claim to behave it's enough to drive you mad.

All you had was a mutual break-up, which happens all the time. Count your losses, move on, and keep your high and mighty opinions about the superiority of women over men to yourself. Women are just as bad as men are, and I can't believe that you're having to recieve this piece of information from a complete stranger instead of witnessing it from human behavior yourself.

Answer 8

Really.. am... never look at that age differrence. in guys it doesnt matter. To him age is just a number to count babe... but the behaviour wil always be that of a child. You know... a man was boorn under the responsibility of a mother to take good care of and that's why even when he is grown up.. he wil always need someone to take gud care of him. You hav never had a relationship her. IM ing friends sometimes do it for fun... so move on

Answer 9

do no longer creep his web site; get to comprehend him in individual! Smile at him whilst he walks previous you after college and each time else you capture his eye, start up some verbal substitute next time you're interior the library mutually, or perhaps basically get your chum to introduce you to him. It does not could be "permit's carry close out" amazing away, even an casual "hello, ideas if I connect your table(like interior the library)?" difficulty can deliver approximately a very ordinary friendly verbal substitute, and you in no way comprehend what would ensue from there. basically decide for it and don't permit the actuality which you like him conflict with attending to comprehend him as a chum first. :)

Answer 10

being a guy, i know how they will say anything to get laid (which sounds horrible, but it is true), i don't know how long you've been with him, but teens tend to say LOVE too easily. love is when you can do or say anything (ANYTHING) and they will accept it. my advice it threaten him. tell him if he doesn't pay more attention to you then you will do something desperate. if he really loves you he will listen. btw, not talking to you doesn't make him a jerk because chances are, he really was busy (i did that to my last boyfriend and it drove him nuts). yeah, next time you have the chance, talk to him about it. don't let him change the subject. YOU WANT ANSWERS AND NOW!!! okay?